I didn't want to have to post this. I hate these kind of threads but I don't want anyone else making the same mistake as I did with this guy...
For a few weeks now, I have been back and forth with Hotdigitaldog. He was preverified with three providers to be safe and a good Hobbier to have visit you. I knew that he would be arriving Yesterday and we would be going out on the town to a SC and retiring at my incall for an overnighter. We had CONSTANT emails back and forth.. some reaching as many as 22 a day... building up the date. He texted me yesterday afternoon saying he was in town and very excited and would be arriving at ten or a little after. He then called me twice thruout the day to talk while he was driving. (again more time spent on him) I knew that we were scheduled for an overnighter so I had arranged and paid a sitter for my children to be away. I also went to buy the alcohol and wine that we had discussed in the emails because he was arriving via plane on sunday and the stores weren't open. (More money for the evening of our date I spent to make and keep the appointment for HIM).
I went to the restroom at 3:30 and found out I had an unexpected visitor from Aunt Flo. I was devastated. I texted him to call me so that I could give him some options. When he called back, I told him I could either find him another girl on the board that would cover me, give him the evening and company out on the town with some amazing skills while driving to and from I could do and give him 200 off entire date for the evening, or he could just come by for a bng since we had been talking. He said he would think about it and call me back.
He called back and asked if I would be ok with doing a 2 hour with him instead of the entire night for my hourly rates. I was game for this. Instead of going out, we were just going to stay in, enjoy the warmth of a fireplace, and drink some wine and do "OTHER" BCD things that I'm known for. He texted me back about twenty minutes later to make sure I was ok with JUST the two hours. I said "Yes" since we had been talking so frequently for three weeks now. So, the night was still on for TWO HOURS. Kids are still at sitters. The wine is still chilled. I'm ready. Mood is set. I turned down calls that could have been done with what I was capable of doing instead of full service. I'm waiting at 10... 10:15... 10:30... and I text him since he was supposed to be here at ten or a little after. With him not being from here, I wanted to make sure he wasn't lost. It wasn't until 10:51 when I finally get a text back, saying he was drinking and wont be able to come. WTF???? Ladies and gentleman, can you imagine if a provider did this? We all know that this thread would have been posted wayyyyy before NOW. It's only because i got an email from here saying... "
Amber,
I am so sorry for my behavior last night, I should not have had as much to drink as I did, that's no excuse but its the reason. I let you know as soon as I realized I was not going to be able to drive (we wound up taking taxis to the hotels).
Let me see what I can do with my schedule and try to see you today (at least to meet you and apologize in person). This is something that I work very hard NOT to let happen, I know how difficult your schedules can get...."
I have sent him an email back along with a text asking to make me whole for everything I'm out. Like I said, I bought wine, alcohol, paid for an all night sitter, and missed three quick calls last night because of HIM. I am not asking him for my two hour rate. I'm asking for the money I am out for him NCNS'g me. I just want to be made whole. I have told him that if he comes thru to make me whole, I will then publicly announce that he did and will close the thread peacefully. But for now, it's open and the ladies need to know the amount of trouble you will go thru while dealing with him and the things you will miss out on if he doesn't come thru.
Sorry, if this is long, but I am a little upset that I went to so much trouble, even willing to find him another provider for a session. He wanted the two hours and was fine with that. So, WTH happened. Drunk? Really? Plain and simple... NCNS and I'm out money for the date.
Guys do these on providers everyday. So, I'm putting my neck out here.