Sugar Daddies....

Thought about it ... never done it. Looking for input from both Ladies and Gents on whats reasonable thinking..

You may be the wrong gender to be a sugar daddy. Haha.

You may be the wrong gender to be a sugar daddy. Haha. Originally Posted by ShysterJon

LMAO

I meant the arrangement ..... guys comment on their side, ladies comment about being a sugar baby.

Sorry sitting alone in a motel room in DFW and bored to tears and just got to thinking.

LMAO

I meant the arrangement ..... guys comment on their side, ladies comment about being a sugar baby.

Sorry sitting alone in a motel room in DFW and bored to tears and just got to thinking. Originally Posted by TheHorseTrainer

I know what you meant. I was just jerking your bridle.

You might wanna check out these threads:

"So you think you want a sugar baby?"

Link to the original "So you think you want a sugar baby?" with replies

"Sugar babies versus escorts"

"Sugar daddy-sugar baby versus hobbyist-provider"

I love it and I have the bestest sugar DILF ever, but everyone's 'terms and conditions' vary, and it depends on what you find rewarding. It can be less income, but more stability, and much more personal, which I like.

I wouldn't advise just hopping into a SDILF/SMILF relationship with just anyone who's interested. It works best if he's someone you have great chemistry with, and that you genuinely like spending time with. If you have to fake your interest (or other things), it will only put a strain on things and the hobby is supposed to be fun....and with the right people involved, it can be a lot of fun for both parties.

I have been a sugar daddy and IF you find the right woman it can be good. The lines get blurry on boundries in my experience and I have spent WAY more being an SD than hobbying. I will stick to hobbying.

I am available to be a Suger Baby for the right woman :-)

I would recommend reading some blogs by SBs (and SDs, to get the other perspective). I stumbled across a few recently, and while I enjoy reading them, it seems like more hassle than it's worth to me -- for both parties. Seriously, it sounds so complicated, with all the negotiating time/money and worries about crossing boundaries... and it seems like most SDs would flip at the idea of being screened like we do for our potential dates. Yikes. Definitely not for me!

Here are a few I enjoyed reading:
SB:
http://sugababyintraining.blogspot.com
http://wantingthemoononastick.blogspot.com
http://the-sweetest-tooth.blogspot.com
http://mydoublelife-sugarbabystyle.blogspot.com
http://thegoaldigger.blogspot.com
SD:
http://sugardaddychronicles.blogspot.com
http://suagrdaddydavid.blogspot.com

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And welcome back, BTW.

I had a terrific sugar baby a couple years back. Ended when she moved away to pursue another opportunity in her day job. We still remain friends, stay in touch, and even see each other every now and then just because we want too. Would do it again in a heartbeat if another one like her came along but am not holding my breath.

I would recommend reading some blogs by SBs (and SDs, to get the other perspective). I stumbled across a few recently, and while I enjoy reading them, it seems like more hassle than it's worth to me -- for both parties. Seriously, it sounds so complicated, with all the negotiating time/money and worries about crossing boundaries... and it seems like most SDs would flip at the idea of being screened like we do for our potential dates. Yikes. Definitely not for me!

Here are a few I enjoyed reading:
SB:
http://sugababyintraining.blogspot.com
http://wantingthemoononastick.blogspot.com
http://the-sweetest-tooth.blogspot.com
http://mydoublelife-sugarbabystyle.blogspot.com
http://thegoaldigger.blogspot.com
SD:
http://sugardaddychronicles.blogspot.com
http://suagrdaddydavid.blogspot.com

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And welcome back, BTW. Originally Posted by Carrie Hillcrest

Thank You so much Carrie .. good to see you too sweetie!

I think the best way is to fill up the tank when you need fuel: Buy it as you need it.
The exclusive arrangement mileage won't be as good..i.e. Your pony will be sitting there idleing in one place. Besides, if you need to squirt, is one provider THAT much better than another ? Yep: there is an arguement here, but there are more than a handful of extremely capable, loving, attractive, professional ladies who expertise is providing an wondeful release of endorphins into the typical addled male brain.

At least one of the main points of the hobby, for me anyways, is the variety. When I find one I like I will visit her more than once. When I feel like I want to travel many different avenues, the ladies will be more than happy to enable me to part with my benjamins. And if I post something here stating I want to delete my thick, fat, throbbing wallet, my pm box will be full. It is a wonderful thing.

I think - uh oh, gonna make a judgment here - it might be more about power and ownership: ' I've got plenty of hobby cash, and I wanna own a woman'. Cool. No prob. But... Oh well, I can't think of anything else to say. Onward through the fog.