Wanting to explore something new

Ok after reading 50 shades of grey . I think I would like to explore my submissive side, just not sure where to start any suggestions ?
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Damn figures lol ...well Im a willing student
  • Sonya
  • 09-25-2014, 04:03 PM
Nah the erotic ball was just for fun. If you wanna learn try Rudyards every Saturday at one. Go upstairs.
Don't be scared. It's where Houston Eros meets. It's an open discussion bdsm group. They talk, have live demos. And once you get to know everyone you'll get invited to munched and crash test dummy parties.

But to really really learn you'll need a Dom. An experienced Dom. Calm and in control .
  • Sonya
  • 09-25-2014, 04:04 PM
And throw away that book. Has little to nothing to do with real submission.
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Yeah real submission involves submitting to my 1.3" of dangling death, and acting like you want more ... alas there is only 1.3" ...
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And throw away that book. Has little to nothing to do with real submission. Originally Posted by Sonya
And all about...

This is what I would like to do. I would like to tie you to a chair and blindfold you. Then I would tease you and tease you again. Then I would lick you to orgasm. Then I would use my fingers so that you got another O . Then I would use a vibrating toy to get you off again. Then again. Then again until you are so sensitive you beg me to stop. Then I screw you in the chair.
The best Dom I ever had began by blindfolding me and brushing my hair very gingerly. I will never forget that experience. He was in CONTROL, but he was also so sweet and gentle in his approach. Before you try it, make sure the Dom is one who starts slow and then revs up. That's my advice. :-)

PS: haven't read the book, cause I lived it. :-)
  • Sonya
  • 09-25-2014, 05:28 PM
Do your research. The Dom I chose had 20 years experience. Is a known respected Dom in Houston. That he may have had one of the most beautiful cocks I've ever seen had something to do with it too. Giggle. But I probably talked to 200 Doms before I decided to belong to him.
Considering Laceys experience there are many types of Doms. Many different styles. Mine was a sadist who expected strict obedience in everything. But that's what I craved, to be taught and controlled. And yes, he took me at my own pace.
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The best Dom I ever had began by blindfolding me and brushing my hair very gingerly. I will never forget that experience. He was in CONTROL, but he was also so sweet and gentle in his approach. Before you try it, make sure the Dom is one who starts slow and then revs up. That's my advice. :-)

PS: haven't read the book, cause I lived it. :-) Originally Posted by Lacey Hall
Not a dom but I sure need to see you soon, sweetheart!
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The best Dom I ever had began by blindfolding me and brushing my hair very gingerly. I will never forget that experience. He was in CONTROL, but he was also so sweet and gentle in his approach. Before you try it, make sure the Dom is one who starts slow and then revs up. That's my advice. :-)

PS: haven't read the book, cause I lived it. :-) Originally Posted by Lacey Hall

Fuck me running with a fork, that's HOTTT!!!
This is what I would like to do. I would like to tie you to a chair and blindfold you. Then I would tease you and tease you again. Then I would lick you to orgasm. Then I would use my fingers so that you got another O . Then I would use a vibrating toy to get you off again. Then again. Then again until you are so sensitive you beg me to stop. Then I screw you in the chair. Originally Posted by spear88
Yes sir please ...
The best Dom I ever had began by blindfolding me and brushing my hair very gingerly. I will never forget that experience. He was in CONTROL, but he was also so sweet and gentle in his approach. Before you try it, make sure the Dom is one who starts slow and then revs up. That's my advice. :-)

PS: haven't read the book, cause I lived it. :-) Originally Posted by Lacey Hall

Oh Thats hot..I dont want to live it , I just want to enhance my hobby experiences
This is what I would like to do. I would like to tie you to a chair and blindfold you. Then I would tease you and tease you again. Then I would lick you to orgasm. Then I would use my fingers so that you got another O . Then I would use a vibrating toy to get you off again. Then again. Then again until you are so sensitive you beg me to stop. Then I screw you in the chair. Originally Posted by spear88
You just made my pussy tingle from the inside out! Do it Allison! LOL!!!!!