Stds

What would you tell your wife if you gave her an STD?

Where the F were you last night?

....how do you know you gave her one?

Maybe she got some side action....

Just sayin.

Say, "That's why you shouldn't sit on public toilets."

A very serious question... not just for those with a wife, but also those with an SB, a mistress, a GF, etc.

Malfoy's posit is very legit.

YOU may know you have an std, but how sure are you that you have passed it along?

Thing is, you cannot know for sure that you have passed anything; you know only that you have had the opportunity to do some passing.

Seriously, the other questions involved with the above are:

If you have legitimately engaged a health professional, that person knows who YOU are (identity) and (depending on the std, perhaps) the professional may have a legal obligation to identify YOU to the appropriate city, county, state board of health who likely may demand to know where you got it, and to whom you may have communicated it.

Any case, your moral obligation is not only to protect yourself but to protect others, loved ones especially, and try to do the right thing.

. Originally Posted by ck1942

Now that is good information.

Say, "That's why you shouldn't sit on public toilets." Originally Posted by KissMy

What Can You Catch in Restrooms? - WebMD

Many disease-causing organisms can survive for only a short time on the surface of the seat, and for an infection to occur, the germs would have to be transferred from the toilet seat to your urethral or genital tract, or through a cut or sore on the buttocks or thighs, which is possible but very unlikely.

on the other hand you can get

You can get them by sleeping in a bed, wearing clothes or even from sitting on a toilet seat that the crabs live on. Usually, crabs live in the pubic hair, but lice can also be in armpits, or mustaches.
Crabs - I Wanna Know

www.iwannaknow.org/teens/sti/crabs.html

But its getting harder to get craps in the US and many other country's.
still common in others.

My SO has a symptom that is worriesome. We will both get tested. Ive been w her for quite a few years. This could go either way. I always cover up for FS but I do bbbj. Its my understanding HSV1/2 could still be transmitted and thats my main concern in the hobby.

My question is truly what would you guys tell your SO if you were basically busted w an STD? I dont think you would tell her you've been w 100 providers over the years would you? And..You wouldnt want her to think you are having an affair.

You have two choices;
You confess all
Or
You deny.

You can't confess one ...it will be a lifelong of, "was that it??"
You can deny. Unless she's going to try to take you on Springer with a lie detector test.

The both of you get tested.
Talk to the dr about awareness and how this could have happened.
You pray it doesn't happen again.
Also please take a break from any hobbying until you are in the clear.

Best of luck!

that's why its important to do blood work and if there is a problem get it resolved before you spread it, there is a link below in my signature. its anonymous, don't need to show ID unlike going in to county where they store your records for years

You'd have stayed at home if she put out so therefore it's her own fault.

You'd have stayed at home if she put out so therefore it's her own fault. Originally Posted by Wizbull0

What??

You'd have stayed at home if she put out so therefore it's her own fault. Originally Posted by Wizbull0

Just come in on the noon stage, cowboy?

I just want you to know that when these folks get through with you I'll try to help you pick up the pieces. Unless I change mY mind. And I will.

Stupid, stupid...

You'd have stayed at home if she put out so therefore it's her own fault. Originally Posted by Wizbull0

Watching you since your very early posts I have been trying to figure you out. I really wanted to believe you were more crude satire than anything else, but there is enough of your posting evidence to say the satire part seems to be missing.

You'd have stayed at home if she put out so therefore it's her own fault. Originally Posted by Wizbull0

Do you also blame others for your poor decisions because they "made you angry"? Is the phrase "it's not my fault" or "but so-and-so did _______" a regular occurrence in your daily speech?

Sources point to "Yes".

There are plenty of men who hobby for variety not because their SO won't "put out" as you put it.