Anal training

vanessa956's Avatar
A friend and I had a conversation this morning about anal. She was telling me how sexy it is and how she loves it. I am thinking about trying some anal play. Would a guy be offended if asked how big it is before hand to agreeing to anal? Lol I mean, I’d be terrified of a huge cock was going to go up my ass and I’m not anal trainer. Just my thought. Lol.
Offended for asking? Not at all. ��
Bill James's Avatar
If it is eased in I don’t size will matter
Your body! You have the say in what happens. Period.
I Agree with tex. Your body your choice.

Also, There are ways to start with anal training other than knowing dick size and going from there. At one of our BDSM munches in KY the suggestion was to start with condoms and rounded pencils. Slowly adding pencils to condoms you will begin to understand your tolerance of difference sizes and be able to work slowly on expanding your tolerance in a safe manner without someone just shoving in in or being frustrated. It is a great starter and it is a technique I have used on previous submissive to work them up to handling a variety of penis sizes.

TLDR: Grab a condom and put in one rounded pencil. Test it out then add an additional pencil. Repeat till you feel uncomfortable (then you know where you want to work on) or comfortable with the size you are willing to work with.
Naw, don't stick pencils up your ass. Invite a little dicked guy like me and lets work together to train you up. I'm thinking a couple of 3 hour sessions should do the trick. PM me any time you want to begin.
Naw, don't stick pencils up your ass. Invite a little dicked guy like me and lets work together to train you up. I'm thinking a couple of 3 hour sessions should do the trick. PM me any time you want to begin. Originally Posted by bill sins
What he said. I'm sure there's a few of us that will volunteer. No worries.
Personally I love taking huge, girthy cocks in my ass as I love challenging myself and testing my limits with how much of that unique intensely pleasurable sensation I can endure.

Since you're starting out Vanessa, a good option to working your way up to a higher tolerance would be to get an anal training set of butt plugs. They're very common and affordable and will usually include three various sized plugs. Essentially one would start out with the smallest size. Then when that can be inserted with more ease, try the next size and so on. There's no rush and the whole process can take days, weeks, or however long you need. Another important factor is to use immense amounts of lube. Use more than you think you'll need as it really does make a difference.

Lastly, in my humble opinion, putting pencils in your butt seems like an emergency room horror story waiting to happen. If it breaks, a thin latex condom is not gonna be of help to you at all. Surely there's porn somewhere of people inserting pencils in their orifices but I have a feeling that's more for people who are experienced and aren't just starting out.
Texas Gamble's Avatar
Vanessa. I highly agree with Lena. Start building your tolerance and comfort level with a plug set. It’ll alleviate partner frustration and allow you to build at your own pace.
mirandalee's Avatar
I've only done with this with my ex boyfriend thought it was gonna be bad but loved it lol..
down4fun's Avatar
Just let me know if you need my help lol...
luc_mart2676's Avatar
Lmao I didnt think there would be a shortage of guys who wouldnt mind volunteering. Idk I guess its just me I've never been a huge fan of giving it, but then again the women i used to date werent into it so that probably had something to do with it. After a while you just stop asking...lol
jughead1171's Avatar
Nope wouldn't be offended since you were looking for a small dick LOL. If your friend a provider?
Lmao I didnt think there would be a shortage of guys who wouldnt mind volunteering. Idk I guess its just me I've never been a huge fan of giving it, but then again the women i used to date werent into it so that probably had something to do with it. After a while you just stop asking...lol Originally Posted by luc_mart2676
Tbh it’s not my thing either.

Not a fan of putting my junk into a hole where shit comes out.
gscott11's Avatar
I'll be your personal trainer babygirl !!!!