Guys & incriminating Questions

Hot Summer's Avatar
I've been seeing alot of comments on reviews about asking ladies incriminating questions before booking.
And I've been receiving alot of questions as well .
Though I understand the need to understand which ladies provide what services.
There's a much better way to go about it .
You guys need to understand that any kinda of incriminating talk is a no go for us legit ladies!!
In case you don't know
This is a tool that LE uses to trap us.
All they need is for us to incriminate our selves to make those charges stick !
My best advice is to do your research the best you can.
But please stop thinking these questions are ok and harmless .
Rooter's Avatar
Thanks for the info. I have to admit I may be a bit guilty of asking about services provided in messages before agreeing to see someone. Never on here but only thru stg. I definitely understand the problem with that. I thought the danger kind of went both ways. I like to ask permission for service inquiries first. Just curious, what's some suggestions about getting around this for everyone?
Hot Summer's Avatar
Thanks for the info. I have to admit I may be a bit guilty of asking about services provided in messages before agreeing to see someone. Never on here but only thru stg. I definitely understand the problem with that. I thought the danger kind of went both ways. I like to ask permission for service inquiries first. Just curious, what's some suggestions about getting around this for everyone? Originally Posted by Rooter
It definitely does go both ways,
& Once you've verbally agreed to services via Text or phone calls they got you!
My best Advice is to do your research and don't cut ladies out who won't answer these kinds of questions.
Those are actually the ladies you wanna book !
They care about the safety of all parties involved.
Rooter's Avatar
Totally get it. I feel like can tell if a ad is genuine on stg, but honestly I don't know what a entrapment one from the police actually looks like. The girls have it way harder. Like one girl told me one time, your just sitting there answering calls and you never know who is on other end. You don't have a ad to judge, just the messages themselves.
Research helps for sure, that's why we are all on here. I've had a great run of luck lately, hitting, the gold I was looking for. However I remember in days gone by getting a girl who don't do this or that. I feel like it's way rude and definitely puts a damper on things when you don't get what your looking for. It would be pretty rude to just turn around and leave after booking, like I've seen before on here. I would just continue on. But I do wish there was a way to find out services offered. Some girls don't click any on stg, some click all and won't do it all.
Hot Summer's Avatar
Totally get it. I feel like can tell if a ad is genuine on stg, but honestly I don't know what a entrapment one from the police actually looks like. The girls have it way harder. Like one girl told me one time, your just sitting there answering calls and you never know who is on other end. You don't have a ad to judge, just the messages themselves.
Research helps for sure, that's why we are all on here. I've had a great run of luck lately, hitting, the gold I was looking for. However I remember in days gone by getting a girl who don't do this or that. I feel like it's way rude and definitely puts a damper on things when you don't get what your looking for. It would be pretty rude to just turn around and leave after booking, like I've seen before on here. I would just continue on. But I do wish there was a way to find out services offered. Some girls don't click any on stg, some click all and won't do it all. Originally Posted by Rooter
Those are some good & bad points lol
If you're only shopping on stg and looking for the cheapest deals .
Then good luck with that blind fishing method

Legitimate ladies know exactly who they are seeing .
We screen for our safety requirements.
No one's coming to my home without screening.
I'm not looking to be 6 feet under.
I'm just trying to make a safe liven.
BUT I can relate to Those ladies and I hope they level up and stay safe sooner then later.
This is One of the reason I've been a mentor for a few from STG.

When I first started I wasn't able to screen
And because of this ,
I had to deal with some horrible clients.
Everything from my car being vandalized to being blackmailed and much more !!..
Hot Summer's Avatar
Some ladies offer video calls or snap chat verification now .
(Not me )
This is a helpful tool you guys might look for .
I understand not all will like my Screening and it's somewhat understandable.
But I am thankful that I can be more cautious with my safety then most
Hot Summer's Avatar
Best & simplest advice I can give is
Do your own research on these ladies.
Questions will most likely get you shut down or blocked.
Do your research. And write ✍ a review to help others research.
grayturner's Avatar
The problem with reseach and reviews comes down to 4 letters of the alphabet YMMV.
Everyone has good days and bad. I have yet to see anyone posting different rates depending on their mood.
How many times have you guys heard, I didn't write that ad, my friend did and I don't do that.
While I understand your reluctance to answer certain questions then you must understand why I turn around and walk out.
Hot Summer's Avatar
The problem with reseach and reviews comes down to 4 letters of the alphabet YMMV.
Everyone has good days and bad. I have yet to see anyone posting different rates depending on their mood.
How many times have you guys heard, I didn't write that ad, my friend did and I don't do that.
While I understand your reluctance to answer certain questions then you must understand why I turn around and walk out. Originally Posted by grayturner
Oh no There's no reluctance.
Its not acceptable and will terminate the conversation with most reputable ladies.
That's my point with this thread.
And Research helps and can take some time if done right.
This community use to help alot more then is does as of late.
Feel free to ask others about ladies if you don't understand how to research them properly.
Hot Summer's Avatar
Example of a simple question I get asked daily
Is there a happy ending?
Now why would anyone think that's ok to ask?
Common sense would tell you, that you found my ad on STG not the Yellow pages under spa services.
Needless to say they don't leave the conversation happy even LOL
grayturner's Avatar
I have been doing this for longer than you have been alive.
I think I know how to researce. While I'm sure you have problems I wish you could walk on our side of the hobby. Over the years I have been robbed,scammed,taken advantage of, hit in tbe ass with a door when I called someone out for using fake pic's, been NCNS more times than I can count. This is just an example of the abuse I have encountered.
I have written over a hundred reviews over the years but none recently. I quit this hooker crap several years ago and now only see sugar babys. It's been like switching from hamburger to steak. So just keep acting like you know everything. I simply don't care
Hot Summer's Avatar
Well geeze that's rough .
Never said I know everything but I do know somethings .
Sorry if that's offensive to you .
Have a great day sir .
Rooter's Avatar
Those are some good & bad points lol
If you're only shopping on stg and looking for the cheapest deals .
Then good luck with that blind fishing method

Legitimate ladies know exactly who they are seeing .
We screen for our safety requirements.
No one's coming to my home without screening.
I'm not looking to be 6 feet under.
I'm just trying to make a safe liven.
BUT I can relate to Those ladies and I hope they level up and stay safe sooner then later.
This is One of the reason I've been a mentor for a few from STG.

When I first started I wasn't able to screen
And because of this ,
I had to deal with some horrible clients.
Everything from my car being vandalized to being blackmailed and much more !!.. Originally Posted by Hot Summer
Well thanks for the advice. This is a topic of interest to me so I was all ears. And I think k it's great you mentor other girls. They need to be protected if in a venerable position.
I guess what I was hoping to learn was a way to get any questions answered without causing the lady any undue stress. I'm sure not knockin research. There are people that say research, research, research, but no one really has any ideas where the rubber meets the road. I would think that all of us on here, are here for... research.
Now, I definitely get what your saying and some common sense should apply.i see no point to asking you about a happy ending. Lol. But say if I wanted to find out if you offer dfk. Like I said before, some offer it and don't say, some say they do and don't, some will after they meet you and see you have good hygiene and all your teeth. Lol. The last part is what greyturner is talking about by ymmv.
Like I said, in the past I tried to approach the subject after we had conversed a bit and I try to ask if it's ok to ask about it. If they say no or don't answer I don't. As far as verification goes sometimes that's a hurdle as well. The last 3 times I've been on my own without the wife. So when they asked for a face pic I was ok with it. When it's both of us seeing a girl I have a pic of our torsos together, that works most of the time. I assume they do some online search for pic.
The thing is everyone does things a little different, so there's not a one size fits all answer. My motivations arent the cheapest girl on stg, what im really after is those fun kinky experiences and im not opposed to pony up and pay for them. But if there's a better way to do it, I sure want to know.
Hot Summer's Avatar
First off thank you very much for the civil conversation hun .
Its very much appreciated & as far as all the rest .
I know it's not easy on your end but just know
We can't incriminate ourselves.
So any questions that lead to service details is a no go for anyone who cares about LE.
Maybe meet & greets are a better plan for some.
However those aren't free so then again I'm not sure what works best for everyone.
I'm just trying to get guys to understand these questions are not acceptable.