I agree with everything you are saying, but some clients like to real world talk. We should only speak for ourselves. Remember even a provider is human and has feelings. Some people seem to forget that.
That being said, If I were a man seeing a lady, I would not want to hear all her problems, but I would love for her to feel comfortable with me. I would also make sure she knows I respect her and will treat her respectfully. I’d want the best service I could get! You get more with kindness!
Yes you are the person handing out the cash, but we have the key to “Good” pussy or “Bad” pussy :-)
Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee
I disagree.
Real world talk? As in what? The weather? politics? religion? sports? local/national news? The hobby world and real world are entirely different and I intend to keep them that way. There is a big difference between respecting a person and getting to know them personally. I understand the ladies are real people and not robots, but honestly, during the small time frame of a BCD session, besides maybe small chit chat, I am really not interested in anything else for conversation, I want to have as much intimate fun as I can in that window of time.
I have taken providers to events and easy, light hearted conversing then is great, going to non-Eccie socials and conversing is great too (On a first time seeing her at one, I met an ATF), but the problem is, what
provider is going to let a client/john contact her, come over and visit, or go out with him to an event and because she is or wants to get comfortable with him, and do it for no compensation? Same theory applies to a guy paying for an intimate encounter and 30-40% of the paid for time, he is playing her psychiatrist or chatting about life so she feels at ease.
The vetting/screening you do as a provider and the money you get paid is
more than adequate to not only make you comfortable in seeing a client for a session, but also giving him a fantastic and memorable experience. If not, then get help on screening skills or raise your rates or both. Performance should not be based upon if he is a good conversationalist to make you comfortable enough to give a client 100% effort, but how his personal hygeine is and how he respects your person in your presence that should be the determining factor.
And since you brought it up, if you want to play the good pussy, bad pussy cards, based on if I want to socialize or not during my visit, then what would happen if I played YMMV card with you donation based upon how good or bad I thought my intimate experience was?
have a great day everyone ! Zena.
