Personally i don't do any overnight with anyone unless I have already seen them or have some form of repore with them and than i personally don't go by a hourly gift...it varies from person to person so I don't have a set gift but I also don't do the schedule type like I have seen...but that is just me...
Originally Posted by Irish Vixen
Irish Lady,
I completely agree. I would never do an overnight with someone I was not already comfortable with--because there will be a lot of other things going on that are best with at least some friendship thrown in.
The biggest positive for me is the sense of no clock, no need to fit a predefined plan, no obligation to be limited by a menu. Generally my overnights include dinner and/or some other event out of the room, lost of relaxing, playing, hugging, a massage or two, catching up since last time, etc. Yes, sometimes there is some sleep
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. Breakfast--one part in bed, one part at a quiet restaurant. And lots and lots of smiles and pleasant memories, and if done at the right time--say a Friday to Saturday--it ends when we want it to end.
Overnights are most definately not for everyone--nor with everyone. If the only measure of quality a guy has is how a lady performs in bed, overnights are not for him--he would likely walk away disapointed in what he got. It is much more the whole experience, but with the right lady it's a tremendous experience--but you have to be into the romance as well as the sex.