Misleading

OK I’m fairly inexperienced in the hobby but I recently saw a provider who had good reviews. In hindsight her pics were kind of blurry but her face “mouth closed” looked cute: she was early 30s apparently. Seemed cool liaising. I get there and am greeted by someone pushing 50 and close to 300 lbs. She immediately disrobes then starts telling me all her problems and how she hates this life before mounting me. She was so loose I couldn’t even feel anything and I’m girthy. Also she smelt of poop. I couldn’t maintain an erection in the circumstances so after about 30 seconds faked one then left 59 and a half minutes before the end of my appointment was due to end. Not only didn’t I come but it took me two weeks before I could even think of sex again after this experience. I’m not going to name this lady as she made it apparent she hates this work but feels she has no other option and I don’t want to destroy her business and see her out on the street. But my instinct was to run but I didn’t want to insult her by doing so even though I felt she had conned me. So I basically paid to give a sympathy shag. Now I’m afraid to go to any other provider as I’m second guessing angles, photo age, photo shop etc. my prior experience was good although also the age and physique of the provider were not as advertised. Is this the norm? Or am I just dumb or unlucky?

Who did you see Philly?

First of all, read reviews on here. Even without full access you can see physical descriptions. And if a girl consistently gets described the same, especially by gents with lots of reviews, you can trust she is at least pretty close to advertised. I NEVER trust ads without reviews to back them up.

This lady had reviews on here but they were from 3/4 years ago but on Escort Babylon she had all these great reviews since then. I’m guessing that site is BS? Also to be clear I’ve n issue with the age (50 versus 30) as I know a lot of attractive 50 year olds but the dishonesty bugs me as does the fact that “busty” is code for morbidly obese and unhygienic. I’m thinking from now on if I stick to slim 20 somethings I might get chubby 30 somethings? Versus busty 30 somethings being suicidal middle aged Jabba the Huts? Or I may just use my hand and pornhub 🫢

You are too nice. I mean, I wouldn't have been rude but if the girl in the photos is that far off, I wouldn't have stayed. One of my standards is height weight proportional. Even the charts give a reasonable spread for this. If I can fall into this range, so can she.

I use the clue if the photo's are taken from a satellite or blurry then I pass. Usually those are a dead giveaway. That's kept me out of those kind of meetings. Just take a t-shirt and better luck next time.