Struck out at “non-reviewed place up north”

Had a great time twice last year.

Fast forward to today, I went for my first “4-hands”. It was all very nice, but the massage went the full hour and I was sent on my way.

I am a HWP, hygenic 30-something guy, and am always polite, so I don’t think I turned them away.

I tipped them both $20 instead of the much larger amount I planned, thanked them, and left.

I left wondering though, if there was some unintentional, non-verbal signal I gave off, or should have given. (It is not common practice to give a large tip up front, correct?) Surely they don’t think I chose a random, unmarked door for a massage because Massage Envy was booked.

Very funny

Very funny Originally Posted by Dr Hackenbush

I didn't think so. Waste of an afternoon tbh.

As I walked out, I felt embarrassed, as surely the list of guys that have struck out there is a short one!!!

You didn't give them the secret password, that no one is willing to share on this site...

It has happened to me too a couple of times, but at other locations, one on Parmer which was my regular spot, not sure what triggers this kind of a behavior, maybe they get messages to be cautious, I'm sure AMP providers have a Facebook or whatsapp group.

Did you tell them when you got there that you've been there before?

Simply laying the tip openly on the table in the room as I walk in and not saying a word, usually works for me everywhere I've been. Just make sure she sees you doing it. If it is not enough, she will say something.
Only at one place on Pond Springs Rd. is where it didn't get me any extras. So, before getting my pants back on after the massage, I picked it up and put it back in my pocket without saying anything again. Of course, I never went back.

Did you tell them when you got there that you've been there before? Originally Posted by Kamisearch

No, I took for granted that she recognized me

I know this is not a review (but it kinda is); 60 minutes is a long time to be on that table with so little happening.

So......what happened on the flip? Were you covered? Uncovered? Did you interact with them at all? Conversation? Light caress of a calf/thigh? Talk about how good they made you feel? You say you hadn't been there in about a year - what made you go with a "4 hands"? Did they talk you into it? Never heard it reported here for that place. I would definitely work up to it before just walking in and requesting a 4 hands to a place that I'm not a regular. Too many ?????

A lot of guys think just by walking in to a place will get them everything they "think" everyone else gets. Sometimes, a visible tip is all that is needed. But in many cases, there's a lot of "prep work" that goes into a satisfactory outcome.

my .02

K.

I want for my regular visit, there is another side to this story that explains why they react the way they did.... Not saying because the response will be,"you are a white knight". No I have respect and believe every story has two side. Btw when you go in leave your phone in the car, just saying

Sometimes the girls won't do anything in a 4 hands because the other girl "doesn't know that I do HE", both of them thinking the same thing and you get nothing.


Not anything to do with you, just internal office politics.


Best to get a regular massage and when happy with a provider, ask her to bring in the right girl for 4 hands