Are anti-ED supplements cheating?

A while back, at a particularly turgid moment, I had a provider ask me, "Did you take some viagra? Tell me the truth." Followed by a good-natured, but accusatory look.

Apparently there was some disconnect in her mind between my age and my wood at that moment. It was almost as if she was saying "I'll be happy to take care of what you have naturally - but if you're juicing, you're cheating."

So ladies, are ED supplements your friend (less warm-up needed, pehaps) - or do they just increase the wear-and-tear that otherwise might not be happening, thereby making your job harder? (No pun intended.)
jfred's Avatar
  • jfred
  • 03-24-2010, 10:22 AM
...I had a provider ask me, "Did you take some viagra? Tell me the truth."... Originally Posted by jkerouac
Well, did you?!?
FREEZE!!!!! Penis Police!!!
If you have ED PLEASE take Viagra!!!!!!!!

I remember one of the worst sessions in my experience.
Mr. Wonderful laid back and and proceeded to give him a (fabulousLOL) BBBJ.
After 10 minutes he was still limp as a noodle.
10 more minutes-same thing.
I sneaked up a look at him under half-closed eyelids so he couldn't tell I was watching him.
This is what he did as I exausted myself trying to get him "up".:
He looked around the room, carefully examing the artwork on the walls.
He dug in his ears-both sides.
He picked his nose.
He yawned.
He examined his fingernails.
He yawned again.
After 30 minutes and at the point of exaustion, I looked up and asked him if everything was OK.
"Well", he said, "Sometimes I have trouble getting an erection".
I asked him was there anything else he would like to try?
"Nope"
I informed him that I was sorry but I was exausted and I would gladly use my hand or let him do whatever to me, but he got angry and ended the session.
Viagra is your friend! Use it!!!
swwaustin's Avatar
While it may not be considered cheating, there should be an *asterisk placed behind any records you break.
wellendowed1911's Avatar
There are some women who have had bad encounters with older men who use them- my ex-girlfriend once told me that one of her girlfriends had a man pass out while having sex because he was an older man who was using some other "nitrates" for blood pressure and apparently forgot that you can't mix the two- as his Blood pressure dropped rapidly during sex and he passed out and of course she panicked and had to call 9-11 and later once she discovered what happened- the lady refuses to date any man who uses the blue pill.
Gonzo DFW's Avatar
On the other hand he could have gotten a four-hour hard on.
Well since ED is an actual health problem for some men I would never call it cheating.More it is the way for the men to accomplish their goal.
Some guys that don't need it take it to enhance their time with the ladies maybe that could be considered cheating but I would say more like he wanted a better experience for her.
As for some ladies that say they won't see men who use it.How would they ever know unless the guy told them?So keep quiet if you do use it unless the lady states she doesn't mind.
Luckily I don't need it "yet" and hopefully won't for a while.
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  • jfred
  • 03-24-2010, 06:01 PM
On the other hand he could have gotten a four-hour hard on. Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW
I always want to fill in that commercial like this: "In the rare event that you have an erection lasting longer than 4 hours...For Heaven sake DON'T waste it!!"
The first time I tried some of the ED erection correction units, I was on a weeknd trip to a B&B in Fredricksburg. A friend of mine suggested that I take a couple of "these" to enhance the experience. Not knowing how they worked, I took one and waited a while...nothing, so I took another one. That was not a good plan. I was waiting on an automatic boner and didn't know that some stimulation is required to get things started

As some of you know, a half pill is a dose, so at this point, I had consumed 4 doses and was harder than a preachers pecker. I stroked, pounded and wore it out for what seemed like hours. While at first thought that sounds like fun, trust me, it was a bit much. After 7 or 8 innings, my lady friend was asking for a break and she had never ask that before.

I finally told her why I had a granite woody for so long and now she asks if I have any more (but in moderation). We laugh about it now but, for those considering some recreational use of the little units, endulge responsibly.
Randall Creed's Avatar
It's NOT cheating because of a couple things, the way I see it. One, because the intent is there, which is why the two (or more) parties are under consensual agreement to commit the act. To maximize enjoyment and completion of the act is greatly enhanced by a hard cock. Just as say, a woman who has issues with natural lubrication using KY or H20. Two, it's not a competitive event. Now, if there was a situation where two guys are trying to see who has the most stamina between them and one slipped a blue pill beforehand, THAT would be cheating.

Unless the woman is hoping for erectile failure, there's no valid reason to consider enhancements as cheating. If we're going to go that route, then boob jobs and the like haw to be considered cheating as well.
bigmarv's Avatar
I'm 59 and have had mixed results using ED drugs. Usually the day after I've taken either Levitra or Cialis is when I'm the hardest.
I stroked, pounded and wore it out for what seemed like hours. Originally Posted by EarlEApex
No pun intended, my friend, as taking more than the suggested amount of the blue pill just might CAUSE a stroke.

I have to say that the side effects of that stuff are almost a deal-killer for me. I use it sparingly, as a little goes a long way. It certainly does its thing, but it's not selective in which blood vessels are affected, and can also cause headaches, stuffy nose, flushing and, ironically, difficulty in achieving the O.

But I don't think it's cheating either - just replaces what 35 years of aging takes away.