Trini30 andadian Goddess - Fell through (TWICE)

I called Trinidadian Goddess yesterday morning and asked her if she was willing to run a new provider special if I wrote a review on her. She told me her prices were $200 for an hour or $150 for the half and if I write a review, she will knock off $25. That was about $75 more than I wanted to spend, so I thanked her and we hung up. She called me right back and asked how much I wanted to spend and I told her I didn't want to insult her, but I had $50 burning a hole in my pocket. So she said she was willing to do a 15 minute session for $50 and a review. I thought "good deal". So she explained to me that she was going to be moving to a different hotel near Northpark mall and she would be ready for me in about 2 hours. This all started about 12 noon yesterday. So I figured I would take care of business in that area of town for a couple of hours and give her time to relocate. At about 2pm I called her and got VM. About 25 minutes later I called again and she answered and said she was sorry but it would still be about another hour before she would be ready for me. So I killed another hour and called her at 3:30. Again, VM. So I grew impatient and left the area. About 6pm I got a text message from her saying she is ready for me now. Six hours later!!!

I texted back and said I gave up on her but I was willing to not say anything if she would see me in the morning for the same deal. I was hoping she would say she would give me 30 minutes, but she just said okay. So we agreed on 10am for this morning. I texted her about 9:30 asking her if we were still on for today. And, as of this writing, I still have not heard back from her.

It could have been a "shit happens" day for her, but all I know is that I wasted several hours and was offered no consolation or even the consideration of saying she didn't want to do it after all. The good thing for me is that I called Mandi (the redhead) and had a session that was unforgettable. So, in a way, I guess I should thank Trinidadian Goddess for standing me up because I got to see Mandi finally. But I hope you guys have better luck than I did with this brand new provider. I know she still advertises on BP, so maybe she is doing good enough business on there that she doesn't mind stiffing an eccie premium access provider.

Sometimes a bargain isn't such a bargain..
Just sayin'

I did advise that $50 for a review was okay because I really needed reviews but after thinking about it I felt like a cheap whore donating my time for $50... I am new to eccie but not new to the hobby and felt harassed when he kept asking me. I have a child and have bills and I am a very good provider and I don't feel like $50 for 30 mins is worth my time.

I did advise that $50 for a review was okay because I really needed reviews but after thinking about it I felt like a cheap whore donating my time for $50... I am new to eccie but not new to the hobby and felt harassed when he kept asking me. I have a child and have bills and I am a very good provider and I don't feel like $50 for 30 mins is worth my time. Originally Posted by Trinidadian Goddess

Then you should have told the client exactly how you felt, and not wasted his time on two different days. There is no excuse for this behavior.

Yes, that is really my point. Instead of messages telling me we were still on, she should have just told me that she changed her mind. I would have respected that much more than her wasting my time. I want to reiterate that she called me and told me $50 was okay because she needed the review. The only "harassing" I did was trying to figure out where the hell she was and if this was really going to happen. I didn't waste her time or put her out in any way. But she did waste my time, about six hours total. I guess she doesn't realize how bad she looks on eccie now because of this.

I'm sorry, "Trinidadian Goddess", but we also work hard for our money and our time is worth a lot to us also. And since we are your livelihood, maybe you should show us a little bit more respect in the future.

By the way, guys, her regular price for a half hour is $150, but she upsells. I asked her if she offers BBBJ and she said yes, but it's extra. You would think that would be included for an unproven, unreviewed provider at that price. As we all know, there are dozens of providers who charge this or less who are slam dunks.

I also want to point out that at the end of Thursday (about 4pm) I called her and left her a message that I was willing to write the day off and not say anything on eccie if she was willing to honor the deal Friday morning. She texted me at 6pm saying she missed my call and she is now available. I told her I gave up on her and went home, but asked her if she wanted to try again in the morning. She said "sure" and told me to just call her when I was 10 minutes away. I asked her if 10am was okay and she said it was. Suspecting she was going to flake out on me, I texted her around 9:30 and asked if we were still on and she never responded. If I had taken her for her word, I would have wasted a lot of gas and time driving to the Northpark Mall area looking for this "very good provider" only to be left high and dry again. By the way, "Trinidadian Goddess", this would have been the decent time to let me know we the deal was off. There really is no excuse for this behavior. I guess you can take the girl out of the Backpage, but you can't take the Backpage out of the girl, because this is typical behavior from those providers. I know they're not all that way, but my few horrible experiences have been BP providers. My outstanding experiences have been eccie providers. I guess it's professionals vs. amateurs.

Again, the consolation for me was that I spent a little bit more money and spent time with my #1 choice anyway (Mandi) and I'm positive I came out ahead because I had a great time and spent my money wisely.

So, to recap, Trinidadian Goddess didn't get $50 or a review and now, due to her lack of consideration and professionalism, she has lost countless clients who read this. My intention is not to harm anyone's livelihood, but I do feel like it is my responsibility as an eccie premium access member to share my experience with the community about this brand new provider. I just hope she is able to mature and graduate to more of a professional type provider who appreciates her clients (who help support her child and pay her bills, by the way).

OK...Since this is out in the open co-ed forum I'm "have" to put in my 2 cents.

1. She handled this very poorly. She probably should have just laughed and hung up on you when you said you wanted a session for FIFTY dollars. I don't see how she could make any profit for that rate. However she DID agree to that rate and should have honored it or at the very least let you know that it just wasnt going to happen and not string you along. I have no clue what that was about but definitely that should not have happened. Our time is just as valuable as our money.

2. You said "She told me her prices were $200 for an hour or $150 for the half and if I write a review, she will knock off $25. That was about $75 more than I wanted to spend" So if my math is correct you're calling up newbie providers and trying to get a session for 50. Now the provider you saw the next day you actually paid a bit more (like double) so I assume you had the money put just preferred not to pay it.
I guess there's no harm in asking for a discount but fifty bucks?? And just for a review by a "premium eccie member".

I think by posting this you are not really putting yourself in the best light either.

I did advise that $50 for a review was okay because I really needed reviews but after thinking about it I felt like a cheap whore donating my time for $50... I am new to eccie but not new to the hobby and felt harassed when he kept asking me. I have a child and have bills and I am a very good provider and I don't feel like $50 for 30 mins is worth my time. Originally Posted by Trinidadian Goddess

You were right! It isn't worth your time, especially for a haggler! You should have just told him goodbye and good riddance instead of stringing him along, but it's a lesson learned anyway. Tell the next bargain basement shopper to kick rocks! Fifty bucks burning a hole in his pocket?!? Baaaahahahahaaa!!!!

She might have handled this poorly...but he sure got things off to a good start by haggling prices for reviews. He's obviously one of those "I'm an ECCIE premium access member who can bring you business if you just drop your prices for me" kind of guys. There is a reason he has to see ladies who will fall for that crap lol.

"I'm a premium access member!"....yeah, you and everyone else with a credit card or a keyboard!!! Big deal!

Trinidadian Goddess, if you are going to give a discount for reviews, make sure you give the discount on their REPEAT visit, not the first visit. They will tell you they will write a review for the discount and then they never do. Usually it's a welcome wagon vulture seeking out whatever deal they can find. Make sure you give them the discount on the return visit!!!

I'd also like to add that it is both sad and pathetic that new girls have to go through this 'hazing' of sorts from the broke asses who prey on their naïveté. Fucking pathetic. There should be some sort of introductory PM that goes out to these girls, warning them about the games these dipshits try to play. I'm just sayin.

Centex mex, were any of your other reviews done in exchange for an unrevealed discount?

You were right! It isn't worth your time, especially for a haggler! You should have just told him goodbye and good riddance instead of stringing him along, but it's a lesson learned anyway. Tell the next bargain basement shopper to kick rocks! Fifty bucks burning a hole in his pocket?!? Baaaahahahahaaa!!!!

She might have handled this poorly...but he sure got things off to a good start by haggling prices for reviews. He's obviously one of those "I'm an ECCIE premium access member who can bring you business if you just drop your prices for me" kind of guys. There is a reason he has to see ladies who will fall for that crap lol.

"I'm a premium access member!"....yeah, you and everyone else with a credit card or a keyboard!!! Big deal!

Trinidadian Goddess, if you are going to give a discount for reviews, make sure you give the discount on their REPEAT visit, not the first visit. They will tell you they will write a review for the discount and then they never do. Usually it's a welcome wagon vulture seeking out whatever deal they can find. Make sure you give them the discount on the return visit!!! Originally Posted by Dannie

I'd also like to add that it is both sad and pathetic that new girls have to go through this 'hazing' of sorts from the broke asses who prey on their naïveté. Fucking pathetic. There should be some sort of introductory PM that goes out to these girls, warning them about the games these dipshits try to play. I'm just sayin. Originally Posted by Dannie

Well said. I feel sorry for her.


Someone should take this girl under their wing and teach her the ropes. Number one lesson, Avoid these kind of hobbyists!

I love ncns in coed.

I have 40 reviews, ill offer ten bucks to anyone who will ncns me.

I promise to post a thread so a few hundred guys will look at your profile.

SUCH A FUCKING CHEAP ASS! TRYING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF A NEW PROVIDER!!! 50 FUCKING BUCKS??!! GET A NEW HOBBY DUDE! UGH FUCKING LAME!

I did advise that $50 for a review was okay because I really needed reviews but after thinking about it I felt like a cheap whore donating my time for $50... I am new to eccie but not new to the hobby and felt harassed when he kept asking me. I have a child and have bills and I am a very good provider and I don't feel like $50 for 30 mins is worth my time. Originally Posted by Trinidadian Goddess

The OP said the deal was $50 for 15 minutes, not 30. That equates to $200 for an hour. If he can dip his wick and get a nut in 15 minutes or less that's not a terrible deal, but how could a review of a 15 minute session possibly help you? There's really not enough activities or ROS to constitute a decent review, unless he embellishes it.

I did advise that $50 for a review was okay because I really needed reviews but after thinking about it I felt like a cheap whore donating my time for $50... I am new to eccie but not new to the hobby and felt harassed when he kept asking me. I have a child and have bills and I am a very good provider and I don't feel like $50 for 30 mins is worth my time. Originally Posted by Trinidadian Goddess

I have regretfully done this before...we are only human! We tell the hobbyists when we can, but sometimes we get smacked in the face when we think about it, and say ...' fuck him! Let him call for awhile'. Funny thing is usually those guys don't offer 50 lousy bucks to an escort for awhile after that...I stood up a guy once who told me I was "not worth 200 and he will pay 100 for an hour and that'siit" I was so so nice and set up a time and everything, and yes, out of spite. We work really hard to make men happy, and we are (most of us) great at it! So when a guy calls us and cheapens us and all that way do, we sometimes feel a bit burned..just saying...that's my two cents

Yes, that is really my point. Instead of messages telling me we were still on, she should have just told me that she changed her mind. I would have respected that much more than her wasting my time. I want to reiterate that she called me and told me $50 was okay because she needed the review. The only "harassing" I did was trying to figure out where the hell she was and if this was really going to happen. I didn't waste her time or put her out in any way. But she did waste my time, about six hours total. I guess she doesn't realize how bad she looks on eccie now because of this.

I'm sorry, "Trinidadian Goddess", but we also work hard for our money and our time is worth a lot to us also. And since we are your livelihood, maybe you should show us a little bit more respect in the future.

By the way, guys, her regular price for a half hour is $150, but she upsells. I asked her if she offers BBBJ and she said yes, but it's extra. You would think that would be included for an unproven, unreviewed provider at that price. As we all know, there are dozens of providers who charge this or less who are slam dunks.

I also want to point out that at the end of Thursday (about 4pm) I called her and left her a message that I was willing to write the day off and not say anything on eccie if she was willing to honor the deal Friday morning. She texted me at 6pm saying she missed my call and she is now available. I told her I gave up on her and went home, but asked her if she wanted to try again in the morning. She said "sure" and told me to just call her when I was 10 minutes away. I asked her if 10am was okay and she said it was. Suspecting she was going to flake out on me, I texted her around 9:30 and asked if we were still on and she never responded. If I had taken her for her word, I would have wasted a lot of gas and time driving to the Northpark Mall area looking for this "very good provider" only to be left high and dry again. By the way, "Trinidadian Goddess", this would have been the decent time to let me know we the deal was off. There really is no excuse for this behavior. I guess you can take the girl out of the Backpage, but you can't take the Backpage out of the girl, because this is typical behavior from those providers. I know they're not all that way, but my few horrible experiences have been BP providers. My outstanding experiences have been eccie providers. I guess it's professionals vs. amateurs.

Again, the consolation for me was that I spent a little bit more money and spent time with my #1 choice anyway (Mandi) and I'm positive I came out ahead because I had a great time and spent my money wisely.

So, to recap, Trinidadian Goddess didn't get $50 or a review and now, due to her lack of consideration and professionalism, she has lost countless clients who read this. My intention is not to harm anyone's livelihood, but I do feel like it is my responsibility as an eccie premium access member to share my experience with the community about this brand new provider. I just hope she is able to mature and graduate to more of a professional type provider who appreciates her clients (who help support her child and pay her bills, by the way). Originally Posted by centex_mex

actually hunny I think she'll get a little bit more respect from the hobbyists who pay for the woman who is worth it because she didn't lower herself.Yes, she could have told you...you could have told her that you really had more cash, because guys try that on me allll the time. Then, what do ya know, they get a half hour b/c I won't lower my rates, then once that's up they like me so much they suddenly found 50 bucks more and wan to do an hour, so ask for 30 minutes longer....
I think she'll do great, and she'll get the reviews she needs. If anything you brought her business by bringing it up.