What if you son, nephew or brother ???????

We keep hearing what if your daughter was a provider. Well what if your son, nephew, brother, husband or any male person was a male provider or what would you do if one of these showed up at your door as a hobbiest. I do have a nephew that said he would do this if he could. I also have a good friend that could have been a male escort for women. He is the only guy I know that could have taken a woman to play pool or the opera. He is one guy that had the attitude and the charming smile to do this as a male escort for women. He could have made a million cause some older women would have loved to be seen with him. I am waiting for the day I open the door and it is a guy I know. How would I handle it well I hope with professional and probably knowing me a hug and kiss and a great time.
Um, well, I was going to go and work in a city where nearly half the people there are related to my mother, who comes from a huuuuge family. If one of the relatives showed up at the door, there'd be shock on both sides, although I'm pretty sure we'd be able to recognize each other's voices. But I wouldn't worry him telling my other relatives about our encounter because what are they going to say to HIM? They'd chastise him for soliciting prostitutes to begin with.


Long ago when the Mustang Ranch charged like 40 dollars or so for half and half I did have a lot of cousins and male relatives who went there because it was cheap and famous,and that was before the internet long took over the world of escorting. And I absolutely suspect that one of my cousins knows what I do. He's like my brother and his only advice was "Ava be careful." And I definitely don't want to work in the city where my mother is related to nearly everyone there, because I don't want to shame my parents. Inevitable people always think, what the hell did your parents do wrong to you that you ended up as a prostitute?
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Again, I would be shocked ... no kids, no brothers, no nephews ...
Um, well, I was going to go and work in a city where nearly half the people there are related to my mother, who comes from a huuuuge family. If one of the relatives showed up at the door, there'd be shock on both sides, although I'm pretty sure we'd be able to recognize each other's voices. But I wouldn't worry him telling my other relatives about our encounter because what are they going to say to HIM? They'd chastise him for soliciting prostitutes to begin with.


Long ago when the Mustang Ranch charged like 40 dollars or so for half and half I did have a lot of cousins and male relatives who went there because it was cheap and famous,and that was before the internet long took over the world of escorting. And I absolutely suspect that one of my cousins knows what I do. He's like my brother and his only advice was "Ava be careful." And I definitely don't want to work in the city where my mother is related to nearly everyone there, because I don't want to shame my parents. Inevitable people always think, what the hell did your parents do wrong to you that you ended up as a prostitute? Originally Posted by alluringava

Ava, very well said here. I can relate to that every words you've said.
Only 3 people that i knew close as a friends knowing what I do.
Are also a provider. You, Rumor Hasit(OKC), Bliss A-dick-tion (Dallas)

No one else know, I do agreed with you they(family) would not understand why I'm doing this and yes, it would hurt them. But afterall everyone lives are so unique. We are unique in our own way to provide.
Ok Pyramider we know you practice safe actions and you also practice alot I bet. Okay what if your co worker was a provider nt a hobbiest but a provider but he seen only women. He was man of the nite as some could say like a lady of nite. How would you treat him? Would you look down on him for doing this and taking a womans money for services or would you high five him? Then ask for the good and bad details and what some of the women had him do and what they looked like. I bet there are guys that are escorts that no one think does it. Imagine some of the guys that you share a beer with, go fishing with and anything else doing this. Wow, I bet there are some charming guys out there that would do this if they arent.
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My friends and coworkers would only dream of being nimbos, man whores, man sluts. They are old married farts, I am the young one. Sure initially I would be surprised but since I am in the hobby it would not detract from drincking beer and being the typical male asshats.

As for stories, I could share even more than he. Being a dork, or dufus, means I have a lot of embarrassing tales, too. Hell, just look at my posts.
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Having a family member or close friend as an upscale male escort satisfying the needs of all the horny upscale women out there who are craving the ultimate in male companionship would be admirable. I would offer him my expertise on being the best he could be
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I have friends on both sides of the door, and I have suggested the hobby to my brother, who lost his wife a couple years ago. He looked at me like I was crazy, but I think I planted a seed.

No logic needed, I would still try to steer my daughter in another direction. She's my daughter, there are safety concerns, and there are legal issues. I'm not my brother's keeper, but I am my daughter's father. I take that shit seriously. I would steer her away from any illegal income, not because I respect the law so much as because getting caught sucks, and if you do it on a daily basis, chances are you will get caught eventually.
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Any family member I would act at first it was OK , then I would stake them out till I got incriminating pictures and wear a wire to get some audio..

then,,I would bribe and pimp them out and extort money as kinda second job.... with the threat of outing them, hey, its just the business end, and only till obummer leaves office and the economy picks up again so I dont no longer need two jobs...

then I may cut them loose I can keep the business and personal relationships seperated..
nothing personal..
I was a talking to my good friend Sunday and told him I did this thread. I told him you know you are the only guy I know that could do this. He just laughed and then he asked me like he always does where do I sign up at. He always told me the money in the sex industry and he even hung out with a porn star for a few weeks. There are so many people that can do this either men or women. Who knows maybe the guy next door that is always having to work out of town on trips is really escorting. My nephew said he would do it too. I have a coworker from the 90's that told me he would do it if he was a woman. I will not forget what he said and did that day in the break room. We are still friends and he says the samething. He told me I knew you would be good at this. He just shook his head. I wonder sometimes how often he thinks of me from the time we worked together to now doing this. Man I hope he dont cut his arm off thinking of me when he should be thinking of the rump roast he is cutting. Life is full of surprises. Have a great week. Hugs and Kisses!!!!!!
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TP..Interesting you say this..I have met a former co-worker..actually she was an employee of mine and is now a provider. We both kept it as profesional as possible but we still giggled about the past. I had a great time with her and I will see her again..

I hope when and if this happes to you it is every bit as enjoyable as my experience.

(You Do You as I always say)