Here is an article I thought were interesting. It seems to suggest for men to be happy sexually they shouldn't strive for a secure relationship.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/artic...ut-men-and-sex
I also ran across these statistics on another site and wondered where you fell in these stats?
Sex outdoors 57%
Discuss fantasies 51
Faked orgasm (women) 48
Sexually adventurous 42
First-date sex 29
Paid for sex (men) 15
Paid for sex (single men, 30+) 30