... So....to the guys....do you have a favorite(s) that you pretty much stick to? Why? HOW? ...
Originally Posted by hgritstoo
Okay, if you're gonna ask serious questions, guess I'll quit with the "making it hard" jokes and answer.
I do have a favorite that I pretty much stick to. Well, all right, two favorites. Just looked, and I have 14 reviews. Of those, six are about "Wendy Ssindy" and five concern ECCIE's own legendary Elisabeth Whispers. So, yeah, I'm in a rut, I guess. Although I can assure you that my rut is a very, very nice one. I enjoy it quite a lot. It's even got a geographical component. Wendy lives not-so-far from me. And Elisabeth lives in Dallas, and for both social and bicycling reasons, I make a Texas trip each and every fall, so I have a built-in opportunity to see her annually; and she also occasionally travels.
(Not often enough, EW!)
Why? Simple. It's connection. They know me, completely; and I know them reasonably well at this point. They are friends. And that makes everything all sorts of better.
How? That's tougher. My budget is limited, and that keeps me in control to some extent. ECCIE is the only board on which I'm active, and that helps too, as ECCIE's not really a thing up here where I live. So, yes, while ECCIE exposes me to lots of women I'd like to meet, they're mostly far enough away that it would be difficult to go see them on impulse.
And by the way, it's not the mammaries that really get my attention. Nice as they are (and they ARE!), most every woman has a pair, and there aren't any bad ones, really, so, as was stated above, they aren't much of a factor in my decision-making. What grabs my mindspace is the ladies who are active posters and who write interesting things. One way or another, I think a decent glimpse of a person's personality peeks out of their writing. Women who seem smart, funny, who get along well with the other women, and who don't take crap from hobbyist types ... yeah, I'm thinking about them, at least. Hopefully, they live far enough away to sort of keep me a good boy. But I'm thinking about them!