Contact etiquette

I tried contacting a provider and after seeing some recent reviews I thought to ask if her location was a residence or safe hotel. She seemed to take great offence to the question.
Was I out of line or is there a better way to inquire?

A lot of them are picky. as long as you don't inquire about their service I don't feel too much is out of bounds. We are the customer and there are a lot to choose from.. don't be offended and just move on to the next if you have to.

I ask that same question often. I don't think it's out of line at all. If they get an attitude over that. IMHO they are not worth seeing

To some of them that seems like "location collecting". Personally I have no problem going through the process and deciding against a meet once I have the location. They are some places around town I just won't go.

Yeah that seems weird to get upset about. As a provider, there are places I won't go. I'm sure the same can be said for her. I'd say red flag!!!

I really do not want to sound boastful by asking if an expensive vehicle will draw attention at an inexpensive hotel. Should that really concern me or am I just being paranoid?

I doubt it would get noticed unless it's parked in a mostly empty lot.

it's your money, ask whatever questions you need to figure out how you want to spend it.

the good providers know that.

I would think asking location would be normal. I mean someone has an hour for lunch and they have to drive 30 minutes to get to you it's probably not going to be too much worth the time and effort for them. To each their own