A tad bit confused

I've been on the bench for a while, so when I decided to get back in the game I figured I would sign up for p411 since I didn't have any current references. So, I contact a few of the ladies that are here and on p411 and I get hit with. "Send me 2 or 3 current references" now I understand the need for safety, but truthfully. Where is the value in being a p411 member? I feel kind of locked out.

It's worth it for me...but for you it might not be. If I want a provider to see me I have no problem with providing her with a little sense of security that being a P411 member in good standing might provide her. I also have a better sense of security about her if she's a P411 member. I also like having a quick list of positive references that will hopefully give a provider confidence to quickly approve me for a visit.
I know that it's not perfect but I just re-upped my membership feeling confident that it was a worthwhile $129.00 spent.

P411 has a list of Newbie-friendly girls. I know you're not exactly new but if you post here in the Requests & ISO forum, you'll get responses. Tell the girls you took a break. The girls can see you have 11 reviews.

P411 has already screened you so further references shouldn't be necessary. Look for P411 ladies who are newbie friendly. If a provider is hyper-cautious and wants 3 references in addition to your basic membership, I wouldn't consider her "newbie-friendly" and she should change her requirements to "Basic +3". In that event, I'd seek another provider.

It may not seem worth the price when you're starting again from scratch but P411 is a big help once you've seen a few providers who give you their okay. After that, it's easy for a P411 provider to check your list of okays and contact the ladies if they feel it necessary without putting you through the hassle.

Good luck, be safe, happy hobbying!

Downloading porn is the OP's only option. He is not smart enough to use the Search tab and see how many other threads there are on this very subject. Do your research and then ask questions.

ok forecaddie! I just went to p411 to advanced search! put in Dallas,tx., rate 100.-300. then went down to Providers willing to see and put newbie friendly and then pushed search and got 54 wonderful providers! if you can't handle that then your hopeless! :-)

Downloading porn is the OP's only option. He is not smart enough to use the Search tab and see how many other threads there are on this very subject. Do your research and then ask questions. Originally Posted by pyramider

pyramider,

It's fun tho....