Here in the US open dating market is looks based. Women can give a f**k less about your personality if you aren't good looking. Even if you're lucky enough to land on a girl far outside your sexual market value, you risk her cheating on you. And if she leaves you can't replicate it.
Create a tinder account now, and upload a photo of a white guy vs asian guy. The asian guy 9 out of 10 times will get ignored. The white guy gets auto compliance. Unless you're a chad 8/10, you will get ignored since women has tons of suitors.
White guys have no game. Just high sexual market value.
Asian/Indians guys have it harder. 95% of looks are genetics.
Looks and Race matters alot even though there are pple here that disagree. Asian guys have it worst in online dating. This is backed up by every online dating statistics.
Now personality only matters if you're average or below, then you'll need personality to help compensate for your lack of looks, and even with that you'll most likely be getting your equally looksmatch only. Game doesnt really matter at this point because you're too far outside the range of getting the most attractive women. Even with good game at this looks range, you will get friendzone majority of time. The only way game could be leverage is if you're slightly above average 7/10. This is the minimum cutt off range where a man's looks wont use against him from majority of women.
Usually mismatched couples are volitile, because all the power is given to the better looking partner. So if she leaves him, he can't replicate it.
Guys who are average or below settle for their equally looksmatch, prostitutes or move to 3rd world countries.
The average looking girl still has many admirers waiting in the wings. Not good looking? Tough.
It is men that are told to get better and becoming the best version of themselves they can be to attract women. Women on the other hand, doesn't have to do anything. Apart from their looks. They just sit and wait for the thirsty guy to show up.