I should have called this the "over 50 and still a dumbass thread".
Went to see a young lady the other night with the intention of enjoying a nice, repeat trip to the isles. Regardless of the destination, I have found that putting lube under the condom as well as over goes a long way to alleviate the loss of sensivity. And it works very well...normally. A word to the wise; if you're going to use Anal-Eze, put on the condom FIRST. Hello? It's not lube. It's a numbing gel. I managed to get some under the condom and it felt like I had just been to the dentist and had a filling in my dick. Needless to say, all travel was cancelled due to weather.