Those who have concealed carry permits, do you arrive at a first encounter carrying or leave it locked in the car? I have something lined up that I suspect won't be in the best part of town and am trying to decide if I should carry or not. Getting ripped off isn't worth the hassle of a DGU, but getting killed is a whole other thing!
If you do carry to a date, how do you disrobe, keep control of the wepaon, etc. (assuming IWB)? I carry off-body so stripping down isn't an issue, but I don't need her rifling through my bag and coming up with my 9 while I'm taking a leak. Providers - any input, thoughts, or experiences to share?