Reliability Matters....Question?

Today was the third time in the past 30-days where-by a I arrived on-time, for a confirmed appointment with a reputable, local provider.....all three appointments didn't happen.

All three were with different reputable, local providers, all three have registered proivider status on this site. All three appointments were made typically 1-day in advance, all three appointments were confirmed directly with the provider roughly 1-hour before appointment time.

Excuses from the providers after I arrived for the appointments were 1) "I have family members here taking showers, I didn't know they were coming over, I don't know how long they are staying", 2) "I was in the bath-tub and didn't realize the ringer on my phone was set on silent" and 3) "the hotel gave my room to another guest so I had to find a different hotel".

#1 apologized, that's it; #2 didn't apologize, only asked if I wanted to come back in a couple hours after she finished her bath; #3 apologized, that's it.

I get it I have little to no credibility on the site b/c I choose not to write review's but would appreciate hearing feedback based on everyone's experiences; who are the most reliable local providers, ladies who are most committed to keeping the appointment requests they accept?

Please don't ask me to call out names of the providers who dusted me, I don't want to do that.

Thanks to whom ever can help!

1) Except for the "taking showers" part, that could happen. Hey, life gets in the way, and family members OBVIOUSLY aren't shared the provider's schedule, so they will pop in on occasion and muck things up. Real life does sometimes get in the way.

2) No excuse, IMHO. If it's that close to appt. time, she should at least have her phone on vibrate. She needs two hours to take a bath before she asked you to return? Yeah, right....

3) I call BS on this one, too. Was the confirmation an hour ahead of time done by email, or by text or phone? If the latter, she should have had your contact # i n her phone, and she should have relayed the info.

My 2 cents, again.

1) Except for the "taking showers" part, that could happen. Hey, life gets in the way, and family members OBVIOUSLY aren't shared the provider's schedule, so they will pop in on occasion and muck things up. Real life does sometimes get in the way.

2) No excuse, IMHO. If it's that close to appt. time, she should at least have her phone on vibrate. She needs two hours to take a bath before she asked you to return? Yeah, right....

3) I call BS on this one, too. Was the confirmation an hour ahead of time done by email, or by text or phone? If the latter, she should have had your contact # i n her phone, and she should have relayed the info.

My 2 cents, again. Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Re. #3, she confirmed an hour prior via text; her phone is txt only.

Wow! I am really sorry to hear that. In my home town (Portland, Oregon) a lot of the guys have been complaining about the same things happening to them. It amazes me that with the economy as bad as it is, that some ladies aren't taking their business a bit more seriously. Yes, life can and does happen. But for you are confirming an hour beforehand, it's weird that those kinds of things just "happen".

Don't let it discourage you - There are plenty of wonderful ladies in the area that would be happy to have your business and spend some fun, quality time with you

xoxo Kourt

Wow! I am really sorry to hear that. In my home town (Portland, Oregon) a lot of the guys have been complaining about the same things happening to them. It amazes me that with the economy as bad as it is, that some ladies aren't taking their business a bit more seriously. Yes, life can and does happen. But for you are confirming an hour beforehand, it's weird that those kinds of things just "happen".

Don't let it discourage you - There are plenty of wonderful ladies in the area that would be happy to have your business and spend some fun, quality time with you

xoxo Kourt Originally Posted by Kourtney Lynn

I couldn't agree more!

I understand you feelings, I have had several meetings cancel on me the day of the meeting too.

I get it I have little to no credibility on the site b/c I choose not to write review's but would appreciate hearing feedback based on everyone's experiences; who are the most reliable local providers, ladies who are most committed to keeping the appointment requests they accept?

Please don't ask me to call out names of the providers who dusted me, I don't want to do that.

Thanks to whom ever can help! Originally Posted by Marte

You tell us not to ask you to call out the names of the providers who 'dusted' you. Your request is fair enough. Yet, you want everyone to share who the most reliable local providers are. How do we collectively figure out who the most reliable providers are? We share experiences of who was unreliable, who NCNSed, who NSed, etc., as well as who has been a reliable provider for us.

Yes, you can share your experience with the least amount of drama by being factual and objective.

I would expect that ladies share with each other if some guy is a regular time waster or NCNSer when references are asked for.

You tell us not to ask you to call out the names of the providers who 'dusted' you. Your request is fair enough. Yet, you want everyone to share who the most reliable local providers are. How do we collectively figure out who the most reliable providers are? We share experiences of who was unreliable, who NCNSed, who NSed, etc., as well as who has been a reliable provider for us.

Yes, you can share your experience with the least amount of drama by being factual and objective.

I would expect that ladies share with each other if some guy is a regular time waster or NCNSer when references are asked for. Originally Posted by Redwolf

Amen.

Sorry for your run of bad luck. I would advise giving someone a second chance if you have a good feeling about them and really feel an attraction. Some of the best relationships I have now started off on the wrong foot. Very glad I kept trying.

Couldn't agree more with Fastcar's advice. Some of mine have started out bad only to be redeemed by awesome meetings with providers once we did meet up.

Today was the third time in the past 30-days where-by a I arrived on-time, for a confirmed appointment with a reputable, local provider.....all three appointments didn't happen.

All three were with different reputable, local providers, all three have registered proivider status on this site. All three appointments were made typically 1-day in advance, all three appointments were confirmed directly with the provider roughly 1-hour before appointment time.

Excuses from the providers after I arrived for the appointments were 1) "I have family members here taking showers, I didn't know they were coming over, I don't know how long they are staying", 2) "I was in the bath-tub and didn't realize the ringer on my phone was set on silent" and 3) "the hotel gave my room to another guest so I had to find a different hotel".

#1 apologized, that's it; #2 didn't apologize, only asked if I wanted to come back in a couple hours after she finished her bath; #3 apologized, that's it.

I get it I have little to no credibility on the site b/c I choose not to write review's but would appreciate hearing feedback based on everyone's experiences; who are the most reliable local providers, ladies who are most committed to keeping the appointment requests they accept?

Please don't ask me to call out names of the providers who dusted me, I don't want to do that.

Thanks to whom ever can help! Originally Posted by Marte

Before I read any other post, why come here to complain/vent if you aren't going to state who did this to you? If they don't offer to make it up in some way or basically just blow you off, tell your story without emotion. Just state the facts as they happened which includes who did this to you. Coming here and complaining about it does nothing, well I take that back...

The goal here is to seek out pussy, not act like one. So step up and name names or anything you say, or have said, isn't valid or credible.

This is exactly the shit I'm talking about too. Gents continue to reward bad behavior, ladies too... This community needs some accountability...

Well, there ya go Marte..sounds like Ken has thrown down the challenge...

It's the old game: Name the Pussy or BE the Pussy...either way, its all about the Pussy!

Today was the third time in the past 30-days where-by a I arrived on-time, for a confirmed appointment with a reputable, local provider.....all three appointments didn't happen.

All three were with different reputable, local providers, all three have registered proivider status on this site. All three appointments were made typically 1-day in advance, all three appointments were confirmed directly with the provider roughly 1-hour before appointment time.

Excuses from the providers after I arrived for the appointments were 1) "I have family members here taking showers, I didn't know they were coming over, I don't know how long they are staying", 2) "I was in the bath-tub and didn't realize the ringer on my phone was set on silent" and 3) "the hotel gave my room to another guest so I had to find a different hotel".

#1 apologized, that's it; #2 didn't apologize, only asked if I wanted to come back in a couple hours after she finished her bath; #3 apologized, that's it.

I get it I have little to no credibility on the site b/c I choose not to write review's but would appreciate hearing feedback based on everyone's experiences; who are the most reliable local providers, ladies who are most committed to keeping the appointment requests they accept?

Please don't ask me to call out names of the providers who dusted me, I don't want to do that.

Thanks to whom ever can help! Originally Posted by Marte

Such is life in the hooker world. Here's what I think happened.

1) Girl double booked and the other guy arrived before you did.
2) Girl double booked and the other guy arrived before you did.
3) Girl double booked and the other guy arrived before you did.

My advice....drive faster and always have a back up plan.

Sorry for your run of bad luck. I would advise giving someone a second chance if you have a good feeling about them and really feel an attraction. Some of the best relationships I have now started off on the wrong foot. Very glad I kept trying. Originally Posted by Fastcar

Thanks Fastcar for your insight; good advice.

You tell us not to ask you to call out the names of the providers who 'dusted' you. Your request is fair enough. Yet, you want everyone to share who the most reliable local providers are. How do we collectively figure out who the most reliable providers are? We share experiences of who was unreliable, who NCNSed, who NSed, etc., as well as who has been a reliable provider for us.

Yes, you can share your experience with the least amount of drama by being factual and objective.

I would expect that ladies share with each other if some guy is a regular time waster or NCNSer when references are asked for. Originally Posted by Redwolf

Exactly. Why the fuck should we help someone who won't help us? Grow a set of balls and tell us who jerked you over, and maybe we'll give you some advice.