When you're just sooooo close...

The how much sex could you have thread got me thinking, and it reminded me of how often I get the feeling of, "I was almost really there!" Like for a big one.

Where a guy has been going down on me and if he just would have added FIV, or just gone a little bit longer.... but they just tongue it a little and kiss it and it's like, ha! Just kidding! Gotcha!

Or when we are fucking and he had a good rhythm and then switched it up all of a sudden, but I was obviously in a state of bliss.....It's like, yeah, you liked that, but nah, I don't want you to enjoy yourself at all.

Or when I'm riding on top, and then he starts getting all gung ho on me.... (which is not often, because I don't do CG very often, but when I do and I'm getting it, I want mine too).

Guys, you have to know that those of us that have been in this biz a while obviously enjoy what we do, and when we have the chance to get in a good orgasm from a session, we love to get it rather than pull one over on you.

So, why do you stop short? Do you want us to stop short on you right before you are about to bust a nut in our mouths, or change position right before you're going to hit the mother load?

Let us get ours too!

I can't speak for the "guys". Only for me.
If I stop short and change up, it is because I was not able to pick up the signals. I try, but not all women react in the same way.
It is very important to me to blow your mind. That is great. If I can find ways to do it five times, get ready to go fucking nuts, five times. Or whatever the number.
When I don't do it right, it was my mistake, not my intent.

Torito

It's ok Torito. I try to give good signals.
I know a lot of reviews have been written about me that are spot on with what to do as well, so I can tell who has done their research or is just good with women.

A couple of guys are TOO GOOD.

Crazy good in fact.
Change the sheets all the way to flipping the mattress good.

But, that doesn't mean I expect that from everyone. But more than a couple of tongue flicks is required, you know?

I love DATY and i dont stop until I know she gets hers or until she just cant take the enjoyment anymore and she pulls away, lol.

As far as sex goes. I could just keep going forever (Energizer bunny). Again if i'm in a certain position and i sense that she is really into it i keep it going until she gets hers. I get more enjoyment from giving a woman pleasure then me getting mine. Don't get me wrong i gotta get my O too at some point but i usually wait until the end to do so (since i have control over it ) lol

I'might usually a giver, and part of my pleasure is knowing, or thinking, she's enjoying ithe too. If I switch it up, I either missed the signals, or I was about to blow and didn't want to just yet. I know I'm the one paying her for a session, but I don't mind if she tells me what she likes too.

I don't hobby a lot, but I know I'm going to get mine. If I give her one or two in the process it's icing on the cake for me.

Double post.... deleted... dumb phone, not a smart phone...

I knew the topic of paying for her time would come up, and I should have addressed that as well. I know it is not about us getting ours.

But I wanted to mention what I did because so many men seem to be interested in giving us ladies a good time as well.

So, I guess I will try to improve my communication better.

Once a few weeks ago had me so freakin close I almost hit him when he stopped.

Seriously.

He got me back when he fucked me, thankfully. It was a good O.

one of these days i might have to show you how the Energizer Bunny keeps his women happy

Communication is critical. I can't imagine too many guys would stop what they are doing if they knew it was what you liked or that you were "so close". A simple, "don't stop" or a " just like that" anything to let us know you are near and I can't imagine anyone stopping early.

I consider myself a giver. I truly love giving as much as receiving in a session. But sometimes it is difficult to tell if what I am doing is getting you there or not.

So my suggestion is to let us know where you are in the whole process. Some ladies are easy to read, but many are difficult.

Speak up or forever hold your peace.

Communication helps and I don't mind a woman giving me a little direction, but speaking for me, in the pass my problem was just reading her body language and picking up on those signals. Now from experience, I've got much better but some women react different so it could be trouble picking up a signal for her. I'm the type that likes to give pleasure more than receive it, so I make it my mission to make sure she gets hers. Rather it's by mouth or staying in a certain position, I pay attention to her reaction and keep it going. I get more into it that way.
Also I think your communication is good Angie, you gave me good directions a couple of times.

The how much sex could you have thread got me thinking, and it reminded me of how often I get the feeling of, "I was almost really there!" Like for a big one.

Where a guy has been going down on me and if he just would have added FIV, or just gone a little bit longer.... but they just tongue it a little and kiss it and it's like, ha! Just kidding! Gotcha!

Or when we are fucking and he had a good rhythm and then switched it up all of a sudden, but I was obviously in a state of bliss.....It's like, yeah, you liked that, but nah, I don't want you to enjoy yourself at all.

Or when I'm riding on top, and then he starts getting all gung ho on me.... (which is not often, because I don't do CG very often, but when I do and I'm getting it, I want mine too).

Guys, you have to know that those of us that have been in this biz a while obviously enjoy what we do, and when we have the chance to get in a good orgasm from a session, we love to get it rather than pull one over on you.

So, why do you stop short? Do you want us to stop short on you right before you are about to bust a nut in our mouths, or change position right before you're going to hit the mother load?

Let us get ours too! Originally Posted by tntangie

The only problem I see is the fact that women do not orgasm.

I like for the ladies to tell me exactly what they want, I listen very well. The thought of a woman getting her rocks off only supercharges my arousal and sets me up for a strong finish. Otherwise, it's just a guessing game as we don't really "know" each other. A lot of us get off on getting you off. In other words, help me to help you, this in turns help me to help myself. Make me make you cum and then I cum as a result.

So, why do you stop short? Originally Posted by tntangie

Because I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. Seriously. I can't read nonverbal clues worth shit. Do I keep doing that, or is there something I should switch to? Did you get there, or are you still trying? Shit, I haven't a clue unless you tell me.

I've had a couple of sessions where I held ff for so long because I was trying to make sure she was happy that, hoping I had accomplished my goal, I just rolled off and went soft. At that point, unless a woman throws cold water on my belief, I'd be happy to just lie there with her without having gotten there myself. But I don't -- and didn't -- mind when my partners decided to make sure I left happy.

I can usually tell when the lady is clearly fucking for herself. In CG, the two hand chest plant and hard grind is typically the cue for me to just lean back and let her go, so to speak. I actually enjoy it when they 'get real' with it. Seriously. These are like, forget the money part of it, we're two people going at it.

I get this with Eccie and BP girls alike. It's a little bit flattering when they get all into it. Then again, maybe I'm just catching them at the perfect time.

I had one keep going, like, 3-4 minutes after I came. I had to physically grab control of her and stop her, to tell her I popped already (worried about condom leakage...that and the 'tingle' was impossibly strong, and borderline unbearable).

If I didn't stop her, she'd probably STILL be going.

Because I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. Seriously. I can't read nonverbal clues worth shit. Do I keep doing that, or is there something I should switch to? Did you get there, or are you still trying? Shit, I haven't a clue unless you tell me.

I've had a couple of sessions where I held ff for so long because I was trying to make sure she was happy that, hoping I had accomplished my goal, I just rolled off and went soft. At that point, unless a woman throws cold water on my belief, I'd be happy to just lie there with her without having gotten there myself. But I don't -- and didn't -- mind when my partners decided to make sure I left happy. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

If this seems to be a problem for you, then ask her to tell you.

I taught my bf pretty well. He got me 3 times orally last night. He wasn't very skilled when I first met him, well - he was not bad.

So, I'm sure there are times when it's awkward to ask for verbal communication, however as I am obviously learning - it's not a bad thing to do.