I agree P411 is 'almost' a must! & I'd say stay away from the strip clubs, AMP's, spa's, street walkers, agencys, etc, until you get at least 2 or 3 reviews under your belt from indys FS or FBSM are you best bet for getting a reference and either an OK on P411 or help in getting P411 set up. It might even be easier to get in with a FBSM gal from here. I know you said you have been reading for a while, but
http://www.urbandictionary.com/ is a good reference for a lot of the terms we use.