I know this has been discussed but needs to be said again I guess.

I am a little frustrated by hobbyist that want to schedule time with me but dont want to go through the verifying process. I require 2 verifiable references, either a link to their showcase or an email or phone # and yes I do check references. I cant make it anymore clear about how important my safety is. And I would think a hobbyist would want to be safe as well. I prefer a link to their showcase so I can just PM the reference but will send emails or even call if I have to, but regardless if you want to book an appointment with me please be prepared to provide me with the required reference. Saves us both time and gets you booked faster for the great services I offer. Lets all stay safe out there!!
CindeeSue

I am starting out in the hobby. Understand both sides of this issue. I know the provider has to look out for her own safety. The hobbyist can find providers that will see newbies. It can be a pain but is worth it in the end. If I sent a provider a pm or text and she was not comfortable with my credentials needed for screening I would just move on. I have no problem with a provider wanting to screen me. I want both of us to be at ease.

By the way CindeeSue I hear your massages are awesome.

Thank you MasterBaiter! They are!

I agree 100% about her massage!

P411 & the problem's solved on both ends...

Also on p411 you can go to your settings and set your standard of references.

Because I am UTR I prefer not to be on P411. I also don't post pictures or use my real name. I post my requirements in my ads and my showcase. I am sure that if the hobbyist takes the time to read the whole ad or my showcase they can see my requirements and be prepared.

Well, as someone who never has 2 recent references I was thinking about a way to get them. Any provider with enough positive feedback that I feel comfortable with seeing myself either requires references or are out of my price range. It's the reason I have seen AMPs so many times and independents Twice. AMPs are not horribly picky, but are slightly more risky. Problem is still no references. But I realized Studios have similar deals as AMPs, but are staffed by many providers who alsp do independent work. So you can actually build references with greater ease. And a lot of the girls at Studios require references. For first timers to, when they do independent. But I still haven't used that little loophole, since Studios seem kind of expensive.

I too am someone who seldom if ever has 2 recent references as I don't hobby that much. It takes a distinct type of provider to give me the urge to pay for sex. That being the case; I have never been turned down by a provider that I wanted to see due to screening issues. I start by treating them with respect when inquiring, being honest about who I have seen (even though they probably wouldn't remember me),and telling them why I would like to see them. No more no less.

Thats the thing, being honest and respectful will get you further then rudeness and Abruptness. If someone is rude I wont book with them, I dont have time for that!

I too am someone who seldom if ever has 2 recent references as I don't hobby that much. It takes a distinct type of provider to give me the urge to pay for sex. . Originally Posted by Iluvwomen

Well this might be a solution. Check the boards and find a couple of popular gals who are newbie friendly. Do not worry about whether or not you think they will give you that urge, their body type, etc. By choosing one with good reviews, you are very likely to forget your pre-concieved notion of what you are interested in once you visit her. There is a reason they are popular.

You will end up with a couple of references and probably a couple of gals to see on a regular basis.

I can't understand why the ladies would have ANY trouble with this policy TBH if Im wanting to see a provider and she is NOT doing a thorough job of screening it makes me wonder why?

Pistolero,
Where in my post did I say I had a problem that needed a solution? As I stated I have not been turned down by anyone that i wanted to see. My point was that there are other options to screening depending on the type of hobbiest.

As far as seeing providers just based on their reviews that I am not attracted to physically, just to get a couple references, I'll pass.

When this happens to me I simply reply with something like this:

Hi! Thanks for your interest, I can't wait to meet you! Please go to my website (link here) and read the reservation page to see what I require for a meeting. I look forward to hearing from you soon!

Either they reply with screening info, or they don't and we go our separate ways. I think my reply makes it obvious I won't see them without it and saves a lot of wasted time/energy on both sides.

I believe every lady should screen but some of y'all ask for to much, I shouldn't have to give up my first born to see you.