Ok I'm seeing that this is becoming an issue so I figure I'd say something. Mods (especially male mods) that you may or may not have in real life are not references. References are vouches from providers that you have seen BCD, and that you have been intimate with. I don't know why this is becoming more common, but it is. If you would like a guy friend here to vouch for you, have the person vouching send the provider a PM or email to vouch for you, but please do not send me a message back after I ask for references that says "Well, (insert mods name here) can vouch for me." Not like that he can't, unless you fuckers are into some freaky shit that we don't know about. And in that case, spill the beans.
You may now return to your regularly scheduled programming.