Having an orgasm is like getting high.

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Please know this is just my thoughts and do not take it personal.
If you are into drama or a hater just be polite and do not post.

In my 2 years in the hobby I have come to know a few people who had
a divorce from their SO( significant other) to be with a provider.
The same can be said for providers giving up the hobby to begin a relationship.Statistics indicate these relationships will fail in the end.Fifty percent of second marriages or relationship ended after 3 years and almost a quarter after5 years. A family is a community of those we build our lives
around. This is not thing to be traded off like fantasy football players.
One persons actions has an effect on the community.


My worry is that the new hobbyist or providers do not understand the power of the hobby.From a medical stand point I wanted to take the time enlighten some on what happens in an orgasm.
It is a result of phenethylamine and endorphin that are released and we crave in an orgasm.
They are addictive and similar to releases from some drugs.
If you ever wondered how hard it would be to quit heroin,
imagine how hard it would be for you never to have sex again!!

The break down of an organs in complicated. Having an orgasm
is like getting high. By releasing a myriad of substances into your bloodstream,you are altering Orgasms involve a complex
interaction between three systems of the body: the vascular system, the nervous system,
and the endocrine system. They are so complicated that it's a miracle that they happen at all!!

1.When one reaches the first state of orgasm - arousal -
there is released into the bloodstream Adrenaline and Noradrenaline

which causes arousal. These are potent body stimulants,
among several other effects. Your heart rate increases,

blood flow increases, etc.

2.When you orgasm, into your bloodstream are released:
Prolactin and Oxytocin. Oxytocin is a substance related
that allows mood control; trust and niceness.
Not to mention Phenethylamine and Endorphin are released.Phenethylamine

substance related to love, can be found in chocolate.
Endorphin are used in pain regulation opiates work on these to cause its effects.

At any given time these may also cause an increased amount of serotonin flowing through the body,
improving mood (mdma works on serotonin to cause its
effects,
which of course is to feel really good. Do teh math)
As a result, chemically, you have an overwhelming sense of trust,
your heart races and blood pressure increases, you feel a
sense of love, and experience a rush similar
to a short but strong dose of morphine. All the while you feel
really happy


I guess my purpose of this thread would be to say to the newbies;
hey enjoy the hobby but do not see beyond the drug it really is.
Some people go to great lengths to get drugs, but why bother
when these active chemicals are just waiting to be released
in your body? However, do not abuse it and keep a rational mind.
It is called a HOBBY for a reason. Keep the two worlds
separate just as any professional drug user would lol





Nice way to keep a perspective on hobby Some might say this is a broken record but IMHO nothing wrong in bringing awareness. I will add from a hobbiest point of view always rememember the core of hobby is money for time. Also whatever you might think is special btn you and a provider, chances are someone is getting the exact same thing



Since you do know me and my humor, what would it take to particpate in your orgasm Ms sabbatical our secret
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LOL ThatDude

Thank you for the nice compliments. Yes money is a point in the hobby.
However, IMHO the drug can make one hunger for more...
Kitten. <3
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Liiana come let me tie you up and show you how addictive it can be lol
Wow. This is theee best (Free) advice on ECCIE that I've seen in a while. And, it's not pompous at all.

Sidenote: I luv your reference to all of these chems, catecholamines, dopaminergics, etc. Sexy baby. That is my language. And my sexual language is chemistry.

Take it newbie MoFos. You are hearing it here. She just told you so. So, before you BBQ, fess up personal shit or even propose to her...thinck wit the Bigga head and not EDS.

SHIT. I checked you out a bit. Zero 'No's, a lot of 'Hell Yeahs', sexy as hell. I scooped Liliana out the other day too. She is sexy HOTTT too. And reading her review, that shit in the Hot tub was nice! (http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=334152)(tonguing the fem)

I don't hobby for the sex or orgasm per se. I love the touch, feel, kiss and erotic debauchery we can get into more so than the "finale" of sorts.

I have a select group of fems I'm methodically meeting over the next few months and once that's completed, I'm going to sit back, drink myself under the earth and relish in our debauchery.

But, then again, I'm not a newbie. Sage advice for these newbs (come in all ages, nes to the Hobby).
Liiana come let me tie you up and show you how addictive it can be lol Originally Posted by Kitten
Now we're talkin. I'd pay to watch. Not be involved at all. I wanna see this dopaminergic shit. Huah babes! Fuck on!
Liiana come let me tie you up and show you how addictive it can be lol Originally Posted by Kitten
Please do. I'm all yours baby. Lol.
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WOW... This might be the most intelligent post I have read on eccie thus far by a provider or ex-provider . In addition, you didn't quote wikipedia like some others...Very well said Kitten.

Great way to present sex and stimulation in medical terms...I feel like I am in college human anatomy class again!

Refreshing read!


p.s. It made me horny
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Big Hugs to Shep.
Thank you all for the wonderful words. I do wish you
were in my anatomy class wait maybe if you were,
I would not have made it. However, the study group would
have been something if you were the anatomy model..

and this is the penis...with the long shaft that can
become aroused during intercourse.
Let's be blunt here. An orgasm a day keeps the antidepressants away. Orgasms do wonders for depression and brain chemistry. So most of us providers should be high all the time
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WOW... This might be the most intelligent post I have read on eccie thus far by a provider or ex-provider . In addition, you didn't quote wikipedia like some others...Very well said Kitten. Originally Posted by sheparsekiii
And Dr. Kitten should know; she not only prescribes the drug, she is one of the best at administering it, as well.
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Let's be blunt here. An orgasm a day keeps the antidepressants away. Orgasms do wonders for depression and brain chemistry. So most of us providers should be high all the time Originally Posted by alluringava
Ok, so this now explains some of the thank you texts I've received! LOL
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I wouldn't necessarily go as far as saying an orgasm is like getting high. Those are two different feelings. An orgasm only last for maybe 10-15 seconds and a high can lasts from anywhere from 10 minutes and beyond. Is the hobby addicting, sure it is, but so is gambling, sky diving, and drugs.
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Let me know the credit hours , what semester, subject, time and I am signing up...






Big Hugs to Shep.
Thank you all for the wonderful words. I do wish you
were in my anatomy class wait maybe if you were,
I would not have made it. However, the study group would
have been something if you were the anatomy model..

and this is the penis...with the long shaft that can
become aroused during intercourse. Originally Posted by Kitten