Brown Barbie 505-309-0634

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https://albuquerque.skipthegames.com...q/419683107414

There was some recent discussion of her
Someone said, “she will do”
I found her ads to be somewhat amusing, though verbose

One night, I txted. She answered
I asked if we could make a date for a few hrs later
She wanted to meet right away, for incall
I told her I can’t come now, but I can in 2hrs

She seemed to rather reluctantly agree
I asked, “can we call it a date?”

BBarbie: “Jus as long as ur legit on your end”

I said, not sure what her apprehension was, but...
I thought she wd be fine, with me

BBarbie: “I think you'll be fine as long as you are who you c u r
and not trying to mess with me in any way because I don't like
getting ready for a date and thensomebody not making their
appointment is really sucky”

me: “understood
I am very reliable
if we make a date
(& I think we have)
I am not likely to miss it”

I mentioned the proposed time, again
She said “okay”. twice

A half hr before date time, I txted “omw”
She responded “wat race r u”
I told her. She said “Oh ya”
About 3mins out, I txted “almost there”
When I got there, I parked on the street. Txted...
“I am here”
She txted back “ok”

A few mins passed
I asked “what do you want me to do?”

BBarbie: “Let me finish getting dressed because
I wasn't too sure if you're going to show up”

me: “I can’t wait very long”

BBarbie: “Oh yeah why is that”
“I really do hope this is a who think it is”
“Plus I really don't like to waste my time”

me: “waiting is nerve wracking
& usually just winds up
being stood up”
“I don’t like my time wasted, either”

BBarbie: “So then I'm guessing right this is what I think it is
because I already fucking told you”
then, after a few mins...
“I'm not going to do a date with you Simon”

me: “I am not Simon
I never said I am Simon
I am [my name]”
a minute passed
“will you have a date
with me, [my name]?”
a few more mins, then
“you don’t like your time wasted
but you are standing me up?”

I waited a few more mins. No response
I rang Plan B. She picked up. I was soon omw to Plan B

A minute later...

BBarbie: “I’m done”

me: “me too”

5 mins later...

BBarbie: “Wat r u in”

40 mins later...

me: “u can not leave me waiting
for 15+ mins
then call me someone else’s name
then say you will not have a date
then not respond
then expect me 2b still waiting”

BBarbie: “Didn't call any one”

So, Brown Barbie. Maybe she will do...
Maybe, in fact, she is a lot of fun...
if you can get to her
She does not like having her time wasted, but...
well, see above

If I were to try again, with her...
I would first have to consider...
do I want to take the risk? in addition to all the other risks,
of being left parked out on the street, waiting?
to see if she can get her shit together
and get me all the way to her door?
{staff edit- CK}
Sadly, that is fairly common, from my experience, somewhat less if you go with the more established and reviewed providers, but even there, I have encountered similar issues. Good luck man.
Pretty much my experience also
If she is who Ithink she is, she's not a newbi. She's been around for a number of years but under a different name(s). The first clue is the verboseness of her STG ads.
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If she is who Ithink she is, she's not a newbi. She's been around for a number of years but under a different name(s). The first clue is the verboseness of her STG ads. Originally Posted by Expresso Jim
I made no connection to any past identities

If you can remember any past name(s) that might be helpful to some
I'm racking my brain on the name she was using at the time, but it's been about two years. But I'm really solid that it's the same person...body size, age, long, repetitive ads fits. Also, her ads back then always included the line that she wasn't looking for a boyfriend which I always thought was odd. Anyway, if I can come up with a name I will post it.
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since she is posting again,
I am providing an update

several weeks after this non-encounter
out of the blue, she rang my phone
I use a txting app. I keep incoming calls shut off
but I can see that I was pinged. I txted her, saying “let’s txt”
She responded “I need to talk to you”
I asked “about what?”. she did not answer that
She said she wanted a voice call
I said give me a few mins, then I wd call her
She said she uses a txt app, also, and can not receive incoming calls
She said “please just answer, ok?”
I said ok, give me a few mins, then I will turn on incoming calls
I will txt you, you can call, and I will answer

10mins later, I txted, ok, you can call me now
She never did. I left incoming turned on for an hr
I txted her “just txt me. say what’s on your mind”
I also asked if she was sure that she had the right person
I have not heard from her, since

being a curious person, I have not blocked her. yet

my point, here, is that she seems very unstable
unless any solid info to the contrary comes up, I will avoid her

https://albuquerque.skipthegames.com...t/960059556956
... an update almost a year later; she still has frequent stg ads in Santa Fe with raunchy pictures and captions, rambling text about great service, professionalism, respect for time etc.

so I tried;

It took some time but ultimately I was ghosted bust zero nothing, and drove half way around Santa Fe county first. Then I was woken up this morning by a cheery "good morning" text

lesson confirmed for me too