My logic, however, in not being so rigid is this: I have read so many stories posted by providers about things that they experienced (negative) and it happened DESPITE their efforts to screen thoroughly.
I believe instinct is our best asset during this process and I do my best to trust mine no matter how little I have to support any "gut feelings." As a result, I've had MOSTLY positive experiences.
But lately, I've noticed an increase in shady characters,
who set out to see if they can get over on me; and luckily I've managed, more than not, to thwart their attempts. (I keep good records... LOL!) 
But what I experienced today was a nice contrast from what I usually see!
A client who I saw earlier had laid down his money and, as I rarely count a donation until after I've said goodbye, this was no different; but upon returning to my room I discovered the donation was short...
5 min later he phoned me to apologize and said he noticed when taking out his keys that part of the money was still in his pocket. So he instructed me to come to the door so he could give me the rest of what was owed.
I don't think I have ever had anyone correct this (without my having to ask them to do so
although I've had a number of clients who have come up short over the last 8 years as a provider. With all the negative stories I read about gals who were done dirty, it's good to be able to report that chivalry is not dead after all and there are still some guys out there who are honest and honorable. 
It warmed my heart so I thought I would make a point to share it with ya'll...
For all those guys out there who are true gentlemen and who treat us well; I'm sure I am not alone when I say that, in light of what many of us go through on a regular basis, we really do appreciate those of you who still have honor.
To anyone reading this; who would have done the same thing my client did, I wish many blessings for you and hope you all have a glorious and relaxing weekend surrounded by good people who appreciate you!
