To me, it has to do with attitude, not specific services. I proudly claim to provide GFE because I sincerely look forward to my appointments and consider my clients to be friends. I enjoy my time with them and strive for them to enjoy their time with me. I feel this includes good conversation, hugging/cuddling/snuggling, sweet words, good kissing, and enthusiasm about the client and the experience overall. If I don't sincerely enjoy being with a client, I don't think I could continue to see him. Of course, there may be times that the chemistry simply isn't there, everyone has had an experience where that is the case, whether in hobby or not.
If there ever came a time where I did not enjoy doing this and was not able to treat my clients as if they truly were my friend/boyfriend/lover, I would quit immediately.
What is your definition of a GFE?
The other part of the same thread was a discussion of PSE and what it includes. I'm not sure what my thoughts are on that, but I'm pretty sure it isn't me. I think I picture an ultra skinny girl with big fake ta-tas having fake orgasm after fake orgasm while being pounded by some unnaturally well-endowed guy.
No doubt that my vision of PSE is not accurate.I know some of the ladies on this board provide PSE and gentlemen who claim to have had PSE, so what is it that makes a PSE?
My definition provided, what are your thoughts? On some forums, it seems to be defined as bbfs rather than the overall experience. I'll happily do bbbj, but bbfs is too risky. (Yes there are risks involved with it, but not like bbfs) I won't do bbfs with any client out of respect and safety of the whole community.
