"No Black Guys!"... Yep I said IT!!

Guess what just happened to me... A black guy calls and says I'm on my way, I don't have a problem with black people until now, anyway, he get's over here and says he left something in the car and asked if I wanted to go with him, I said no that's o.k , so he goes to his car and calls back saying "you know I aint no trick right " and I said I guess you are a pimp, he say's no I'm a hustler. wtf?
Now I see why girls don't see black guy's, all it takes is one to fuq it up for the rest of you guy's.
1rst time shame on me, 2nd time shame on you!
Take it how you want to here's his number *** 518 *637 pm for more info on him
the nerve of some people, Dallas is too slow for the bull, o.k.!
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I'm white and hate to throw out the race card here, BUT his race has nothing to do with the fact he is a dirtbag.

I've met some good guys over the years who just happen to be non white so to exclude solely on that is wrong.

Better question is to ask what better ways can you screen fucktards like him so that you don't see "hustlers" , "time wasters", or worse.

The bad part is he now knows where you are staying and exactly what you look like and if he is truly a pimp, many times they will damage your car and then tell you that you need protection and he can help make sure it doesn't happen again.

If you can move hotels or at the very least, move to another side of the building.
In your haste to post this... you may have been better just to post this in the alert section or even the ladies locker/powder room. Hopefully, one of the MODS can move this...

before the shitstorm hits. I better get some popcorn.

Trooper H
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ok...... NEVERMIND

Good luck to you
I am not sure why you felt the need to stereotype and write off an entire race because of one jackass. Some of the people I trust and love the most in this world are Black, and I consider them family. Their color means nothing to me. There are assholes in every race.

I wonder how many providers decided to stop seeing white guys because of the Craigslist killer.

If you think black guys are the only ones who are creeps in your line of business, best of luck to you because you'll definitely need it!
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I'm sorry this happened to you. You can see or not see whomever you want, but the truth is that no race has a monopoly on bad behavior. You may believe that because a street hustler treated you this way, that the other hundreds of millions of black men in the world would do the same, but you would be wrong.

As the alerts section makes clear, white, hispanic and asian clients also do bad things. The difference is that these people are seen as the sick individuals that they are, not as the standard barriers for their race. Every race has enormous individual differences: some are great people; some are good people; some are not so good; some are downright horrible.

But your policy about not seeing black men may be the right choice for you. If you believe this man's actions (or the actions of other pimps and hustlers) are reflective of every other member of this race, then the good ones (and there are plenty of them) are better off visiting providers who see them as individuals and enjoy and appreciate their individuality.
I am not sure why you felt the need to stereotype and write off an entire race because of one jackass. Some of the people I trust and love the most in this world are Black, and I consider them family. Their color means nothing to me. There are assholes in every race.

I wonder how many providers decided to stop seeing white guys because of the Craigslist killer.

You only have 1 life to live and thats the truth, this business is already too risky without these pimps/hustlers playing unsafe pointless little boy games!!

If you think black guys are the only ones who are creeps in your line of business, best of luck to you! Originally Posted by Joe Smith
You only have 1 life to live and thats the truth, this business is already too risky without these pimps/hustlers playing unsafe pointless little boy games!!
I am not sure why you felt the need to stereotype and write off an entire race because of one jackass. Some of the people I trust and love the most in this world are Black, and I consider them family. Their color means nothing to me. There are assholes in every race.

I wonder how many providers decided to stop seeing white guys because of the Craigslist killer.

If you think black guys are the only ones who are creeps in your line of business, best of luck to you!

And just FYI, the saying is actually, "1st time, shame on you and 2nd time, shame on me." Originally Posted by Joe Smith
"Fyi" it's my fault if you fool me once! (2) it's your fault if you think you can fool me twice. You get me first I get you second for trying again. "FOOL ME ONCE SHAME ON ME, FOOL ME TWICE SHAME ON YOU" read into it sweetie before you correct someone.
And if he tries something slick again it will be shame on him!
Please don't quote me, and then add your thoughts in my quote as if I said it.

And I went in and took out my "fool me once and fool me twice blah blah" because I did not think that was cool of me to try to correct you.

You should do what makes you feel safe. To be honest, I could give two shits who you want to see. I have no dog in this hunt.

Again, best of luck to you!!
So, because of one jerk, you're going to damage your reputation and business all on your own when you could have just called it a loss and gone on with your day? I guess this means that the next white guy that does something to you, you're going to quit seeing them too? Well played! With that logic you'll be out of business in no time. Please post his info on Provider Buzz so other ladies don't get taken by him or worse.

Holi I know I'm being facetious but girl, there are things you do and things you don't do. Maybe you'd like to move this to the powder room.

We have almost all been through this and believe me when I tell you that this thread is not the way to deal with it. Maybe you should look at why you're attracting certain clients and adjust your image/advertising accordingly. If you need help with that there are several ladies who really know advertising and "branding" and they would be happy to help you.

@RoDunn~Well said sir!
So, because of one jerk, you're going to damage your reputation and business all on your own when you could have just called it a loss and gone on with your day? I guess this means that the next white guy that does something to you, you're going to quit seeing them too? Well played! With that logic you'll be out of business in no time. Please post his info on Provider Buzz so other ladies don't get taken by him or worse.

Holi I know I'm being facetious but girl, there are things you do and things you don't do. Maybe you'd like to move this to the powder room.

We have almost all been through this and believe me when I tell you that this thread is not the way to deal with it. Maybe you should look at why you're attracting certain clients and adjust your image/advertising accordingly. If you need help with that there are several ladies who really know advertising and "branding" and they would be happy to help you.

@RoDunn~Well said sir! Originally Posted by Dharma
Maybe you can learn from me sweetie, I'm not the rookie you looking for, I've been through more things then you in this business, you don't know enough about me to be giving advice, "Dallas" is too slow for me and I don't have to put up with games from any body or race! It's my choice so you deal with it. 14 years experience baby from the block to the top baby, "catch up"
Maybe you can learn from me sweetie, I'm not the rookie you looking for, I've been through more things then you in this business, you don't know enough about me to be giving advice, "Dallas" is too slow for me and I don't have to put up with games from any body or race! It's my choice so you deal with it. 14 years experience baby from the block to the top baby, "catch up" Originally Posted by holi2010
Maybe Dallas is not right for you and your 14 years of experience. I'm guessing if Dallas is too slow for you, you're probably too slow for Dallas and maybe you should hit up a city that is more up to your speed. Nobody is begging you to stay here. It's simple, just "catch up" as you say, in another city that is more up to your speed.
Well, that would make you at least 32 then, sound about right? You're absolutely right, you're grown and you don't need any advice. Knock yourself out sweety!
Just out of curiosity...has any provider here HAD a white guy show up for an appointment and say something along the lines of "you know I aint no trick right " ??

I've wondered if that is an exclusive pickup line.
No, but they have called me telling me that they can triple my income. I doubt it. Well, I'm going to bed, I have a full day tomorrow.