Why are some hobbyists rude and disrespectful???

Just came across my first a** of my "career" in the hobby. Guy scheduled to meet with me and after driving to the agreed upon location I realised I left my license at home so I asked if he could get the room (come on where I meet they don't keep track of your info anyways) and the guy turned into a jerk and refused to answer his phone and instead took off and said I was setting him up when I am a verified provider and have lots of reviews from well known clients in this area!!!

I even went through the hassel of getting the staff of the location to let me get a room without my license and the jerk had already left the location!!!

This just ticks me off so badly after wasting my time and gas to drive out there and to basically get stood up and told that I was setting him up when I am verified online as a provider!

Rebecca

This isn't his problem. He probably could have been less of a ass if he was in fact as bad as you claim. However, you never know what kind of shit can happen or get around. He was just covering his own ass and honestly, I think you should have been more prepared. It might have been an honest mistake but trust is definitely something to be earned.

I have to agree with Shayla on this one, sorry that he was an ass to you though.

Especially if you are well reviewed.

One of the reasons why some guys act like that because there are escorts who cater to bad behavior.

The same type of escorts will attack another escort just so the guys will like them more.

Just came across my first a** of my "career" in the hobby. Guy scheduled to meet with me and after driving to the agreed upon location I realised I left my license at home so I asked if he could get the room (come on where I meet they don't keep track of your info anyways) and the guy turned into a jerk and refused to answer his phone and instead took off and said I was setting him up when I am a verified provider and have lots of reviews from well known clients in this area!!!

I even went through the hassel of getting the staff of the location to let me get a room without my license and the jerk had already left the location!!!

This just ticks me off so badly after wasting my time and gas to drive out there and to basically get stood up and told that I was setting him up when I am verified online as a provider!

Rebecca Originally Posted by rebecca_rose83

While I am very sorry this happened to you.... But I have to agree with Shayla..... and let us not cast stones at hobbyist only..... we ALL are withing groups that have their share of rude and disrespectful individuals.......

JaD

Especially if you are well reviewed.

One of the reasons why some guys act like that because there are escorts who cater to bad behavior.

The same type of escorts will attack another escort just so the guys will like them more. Originally Posted by mikkifine

No honey, I will not "attack" another escort so the guys will like me more.
I don't even live in Houston nor have I ever worked there, so your point is irrelevant. I honestly feel the OP should have been more prepared or should have secured the room earlier. Asking the guy to pay/put the room in his name isn't good business practice. I'm sure it would make 99% of hobbyists uncomfortable if they were asked that AS they were driving to meet up for a booked appointment. I did say I was sorry he was an ass to her.

while you sound sweet and sincere, you cannot be too careful in this business. i honestly probably would have just said i understood but rescheduled.

"Why are some hobbyists rude and disrespectful???""

rebecca_rose83-- Im going to respond to the question that caught my eye. WHy did it catch my eye and other girls attention?

Many Hobbiest dont think they HAVE to be nice where as we feel we are PAID to be nice. We are reviewed to be nice. Thats the meaning of GFE, right? Nice if the client is fat, 5 minutes late, stinks, 80 yrs old on Viagra ready to beat the hell out of the pussy... we must be nice, right? We are a board personality while the guys hide behind handles.. yes we can black list for being a no-call no show or too rough--- them but man... they... sure (steam coming out of ears) push the buttons. If a provider gangs up on a bully hiding behind a handle... (gasp) she might loose business.

Us girls have our own jabs we take, mine is for my rates... then I got over it. Some get jabs for age... or weight... or... we all have our thing that sets us off and we just...... smile through the bull crap!

I am totally vocal on my Denver board and come out VERY opinionated as I tracked where my income was coming from... the eastcoast. When I knew where my $ was coming from, I was more honest, revealing, transparent... and now, on my homeboard... more respected...6 years later... 6 years of perfect reviews. But, be yourself on the board.Your track record will earn the respect. Choose your battles. Its hip to say "just do you". Well, just be YOUR best and business will work itsself out.

xo- Angela Aspen

I love both of these for different reasons... but both are very good!

No honey, I will not "attack" another escort so the guys will like me more.
I don't even live in Houston nor have I ever worked there, so your point is irrelevant. I honestly feel the OP should have been more prepared or should have secured the room earlier. Asking the guy to pay/put the room in his name isn't good business practice. I'm sure it would make 99% of hobbyists uncomfortable if they were asked that AS they were driving to meet up for a booked appointment. I did say I was sorry he was an ass to her. Originally Posted by Jamieyoung

I could not agree more! Much like it is a Hobbyist "duty" (IMHO) to make sure the provider feels as safe and comfortable as possible.... it also the "duty" of the provider to make sure of the same.... last second curveballs make people uncomfortable..... and when that happens, no one has fun..... Did he need to be an ass? absolutely not! But is he wrong for not feeling good? No as well....

"Why are some hobbyists rude and disrespectful???""

rebecca_rose83-- Im going to respond to the question that caught my eye. WHy did it catch my eye and other girls attention?

Many Hobbiest dont think they HAVE to be nice where as we feel we are PAID to be nice. We are reviewed to be nice. Thats the meaning of GFE, right? Nice if the client is fat, 5 minutes late, stinks, 80 yrs old on Viagra ready to beat the hell out of the pussy... we must be nice, right? We are a board personality while the guys hide behind handles.. yes we can black list for being a no-call no show or too rough--- them but man... they... sure (steam coming out of ears) push the buttons. If a provider gangs up on a bully hiding behind a handle... (gasp) she might loose business.

Us girls have our own jabs we take, mine is for my rates... then I got over it. Some get jabs for age... or weight... or... we all have our thing that sets us off and we just...... smile through the bull crap!

I am totally vocal on my Denver board and come out VERY opinionated as I tracked where my income was coming from... the eastcoast. When I knew where my $ was coming from, I was more honest, revealing, transparent... and now, on my homeboard... more respected...6 years later... 6 years of perfect reviews. But, be yourself on the board.Your track record will earn the respect. Choose your battles. Its hip to say "just do you". Well, just be YOUR best and business will work itsself out.

xo- Angela Aspen Originally Posted by AngelaAspenXXX

It is a customer driven business..... is basically what it boils down to.... and while in typical such businesses the phrase "the customer is always right" may in fact be set in stone.... in ours it isn't as much so..... personalities, YMMV, WALDT, and many other things come into play that effect the "Experience" from hobbyist to hobbyist..... It takes balls as a provider to stand up for you own shit KNOWING that it could have adverse effects on your the weight of your purse...... but if your convictions are strong enough.... and you take care of your shit as well as is possible in this game of ours...... then you stand a strong fighting chance of being proven correct..........

Either that, or you look like some of you ladies do and fuck like a thoroughbred..... you pretty much get several passes.....Ha! (Or in a guys version... have a FAT bankroll and finish in 30seconds....)

JaD

Yo Jamie is pretty hot that's some nice thickness there.

As for that chicks meet yeah that's your fault with the leaving your ID. You got to accept that and let it go if you had it this wouldn't have happened. That just that. Yeah you're real but till I know you you're anybody, I would leave too.

The train goes both ways. your title should read like this:
Why are some hobbyists and providers rude and disrespectful???

We all have things that will trigger a yellow or red flag, I think I even started a thread on it a long time ago.. maybe it was on ASPD. What gets me is this, if the guy did his homework on you he would have seen that you are well reviewed so that should have given him some level of security.

I also understand not wanting to register his name, no-one wants a paper trail.

But one cannot fault a person for being too careful.

I would like to point out that if I went to a resteraunt and was told that my meal would cost ~30% more and I would have to cook it myself I would get a bit disgruntled too.

Why are some hobbyists rude and disrespectful???

Because they are tired of all the no shows!

the main reason providers verify is to make themselves feel comfortable and secure a last minute call saying you get the room might scare the gent and make him very uncomfortable and less than trusting

I have to agree with Shayla on this one, sorry that he was an ass to you though. Originally Posted by Jamieyoung