Do you guys use your phones to contact providers, or should I get a burner?

New to the game and still have some anxieties before actually going for it for the first time. If the provider gets busted can they use my texts to bust me (obviously I wouldn't say anything sexual/explicit) or do I just gotta chill the F out? Thank you all in advance

Don’t text explicitly and that would be a real stretch

I use a texting app, that way I can delete it when I'm not looking. I can also change my number easily if someone annoying gets a hold of it.

Dont use your personal phone. If you haven't gotten to that realization point this might not be the hobby for you. Don't send pictures, don't use your real name.

Despite "not texting explicitly", even if you aren't explicit it's enough to deduce a barter for sex, which is illegal. No they cant use your texts to show up at your house and bust you. Upstate NY goes after the women, not the clients, unless it's an underage sting.

Textnow has worked best for me

The app TEXTFREE works ok for me, not great for phone calls but fine for texting. If you don't want a second phone that's what I'd recommend.

don't use your real name. Originally Posted by EGrayupstate

Thats what I always thought, but then how would they screen you?

Thats what I always thought, but then how would they screen you? Originally Posted by Deadman7

A lot of chicks utilize a booking form where they can ask a bit more details without the endless texting or emailing. Another method commonly used is prebooking and/or leaving a deposit. If you check the verified girls out, there’s quite a few that are newbie-friendly.

My advice would be this: in terms of privacy consider if it’s a two way straight before you proceed. If a girl is asking for a work ID or some personal info and all she’s giving you is a pic that she’s been posting for years than that’s a good sign that you might want to pass. Feel free to shoot me a PM if you have any other questions.

I use windsribe VPN and google voice. I don't think anything is fully secure, but NEVER use your real number or give out your last name/place of employment to an escort. Lying is okay. They lie to you.

The risks associated with the hobby can't be underestimated. Use the info provided here and in the national forums. If you hobby enough, there wil be times when shit gets real, and if you're not prepared, you'll end up fucking your life instead of a girl.