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I think the lesson is really, don't marry frigid women who don't put out. Originally Posted by SillyGirlThis lesson should be taught to boys from birth. No one told me.
I think the lesson is really, don't marry frigid women who don't put out. "Middle aged" providers are keeping their furnaces stoked by being appropriately sexual during their sexual peak.That is a valid point and sound advice, but I don't think it is that simple. Plenty of men, including a personal friend, have reported a rewarding sex life prior to their wives experiencing childbirth (and the demands on one's time and energy associated with parenthood) and, particularly, menopause.Originally Posted by SillyGirl
I am single and free to do what I please, with no man to take care of, cook for, or answer to. My married friends ask me how I keep looking so young and stay so active, and they ask with envy.
I simply state....D I V O R C E!! AND VERY HAPPILY DIVORCED AS WELL!
Marriage is hard on a woman who gives herself to her husband and family. She often gives up herself. I did that once, then took myself back, and never again will I let myself go for anyone. There is a true balance that a woman can find married or not.
and Ill probably never get married again due to this fact, that Ive become narcissistic as Ive gotten older and its all about me now.
Me, Me, ME! lol Originally Posted by Chellablaine
I am single and free to do what I please, with no man to take care of, cook for, or answer to. My married friends ask me how I keep looking so young and stay so active, and they ask with envy.You're so sexxxy!
I simply state....D I V O R C E!! AND VERY HAPPILY DIVORCED AS WELL!
Marriage is hard on a woman who gives herself to her husband and family. She often gives up herself. I did that once, then took myself back, and never again will I let myself go for anyone. There is a true balance that a woman can find married or not.
and Ill probably never get married again due to this fact, that Ive become narcissistic as Ive gotten older and its all about me now.
Me, Me, ME! lol Originally Posted by Chellablaine
This lesson should be taught to boys from birth. No one told me.Sex before marriage. Always. Often. Frequent conversations about sex. Expressing verbally how important sex is to you. If you are dating and she is already not willing to put out unless its Friday night, or your birthday, or you got her a present don't marry her.
Follow up questions, though: how do you know she's frigid and won't put out before you marry her? And what about the post-birth no-sex syndrome? Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
That is a valid point and sound advice, but I don't think it is that simple. Plenty of men, including a personal friend, have reported a rewarding sex life prior to their wives experiencing childbirth (and the demands on one's time and energy associated with parenthood) and, particularly, menopause. Originally Posted by BreastLuvrMenopause is post peak and more something to watch out for with the 50+ crowd. And new mothers might be a lot more willing to fuck some more if new fathers took the position that fathering their child is not "helping out" but simply fulfilling responsibility. You get up 3 times a night to feed the baby and maybe she will be a little more willing to suck your dick.