Ending it :(

So when u end a relationship , how do u deal with the pain?

So when u end a relationship , how do u deal with the pain? Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

You eat a lot of Chocolate chip cookies and Ice cream cake.

Listen to break-up songs and cry your eyes out then .....

Watch movies that make you laugh.

Talk a walk somewhere or go on vacation to an exotic island
I'm thinking St. Lucia. Wanna go?

Pick someone up at the bar (not recommened but a lotta people do it)

Oh and last but not least, Call me.

(I hope that you realize that I'm just teasing you. Call me if you need to)

Do NOT isolate yourself...

Let that person go....

Talk to others....

Laugh with others...

Cry with others...

Most important..... Time

Get laid...as many times as possible!

What Chica Chaser said . . .

Things I have found don't work:

Getting Drunk
Getting laid
hitting things
sleeping all day
watching soap operas
eating every thing in front of me




Things that are helping me but I will get back with you on if works long term:

Working out
picking up a new hobby
Volunteer work
a new puppy!!! lol
talking with friends
going out with friends
Meeting new people

Hope this helps sweetie

Need to sticky this to my fridge.

Things I have found don't work:

Getting Drunk
Getting laid
hitting things
sleeping all day
watching soap operas
eating every thing in front of me




Things that are helping me but I will get back with you on if works long term:

Working out
picking up a new hobby
Volunteer work
a new puppy!!! lol
talking with friends
going out with friends
Meeting new people

Hope this helps sweetie Originally Posted by lil_michelle

I don't eat sugar (Naomi)
But the pain is bad, like bad it really hurts )
This is so dumb

I don't eat sugar (Naomi)
But the pain is bad, like bad it really hurts )
This is so dumb Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

It's not dumb at all... you are heart broken and need time to heal. We are here for you but it will not take away your pain. I do know this...you are beautiful and so much more. You are worth fighting for. So.. you fight for yourself until you find the perfect man to fight with instead..lol

Seriously, please let me know if I can help.

As my dad once told me when a relationship ended with a GF of mine. He said son always remember, "Lose a nickel, lose a woman, all you lost was a nickel." Easy advice to give. Often difficult advice to follow.

One of the most powerful antidotes for lost pussy, is new pussy! Sex may not heal all wounds, but it will certainly dull the pain.


Wilson W WiLsOn

time always heals.

I should add, I am speaking from the male perspective SnL. I'm sorry to hear of your loss
(You ready for that Vegas trip yet? Lots of problems go away in Vegas!)

I'm crying but thanks girls ,I love y'all :
I just hate the pain, it's like a major pain in my heart ...I hate it

So when u end a relationship , how do u deal with the pain? Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Another pain will come along soon to replace the pain you're feeling now. The pain will never be greater than it is right now and will eventually become less and less when you surround it with all the happiness you can. If is really, really hurts a lot, the pain will never go away completely but that's not necessarily a bad thing...because it will be a reminder of how deep the emotion was that you were able to achieve with the wrong person and now you know you have a new depth of emotion that you can share with the right person......

SNL... my heart is breaking for you right now. I know you need to cry and I won't tell you to stop.. but PLEASE reach out to someone to talk to. It looks like you and Naomi are close.. call her. U can always talk to me too but I figure you would rather talk to someone you actually know. Just don't go through it alone..please