When hobby and civilian life accidentally meet

Like most of us, I always do my best to keep hobby and civilian life as far apart as possible, but sometimes they can cross paths. I was reminded of that when I saw an old friend of mine's daughter in a provider add. She's in a different city, and it's not like I'm planing to go see her, but I suppose it's possible to accidentally run into someone like that when you open the door.
Maybe it's your dentist, your kid's babysitter, or your boss's daughter. We guys don't always see providers' faces before the door opens.
So, I was wondering...
Has this happened to you?
Did they recognize you?
What did you do?

I have seen 2 providers that in conversations we realized that we had common links. I went to the same highschool with one, but a couple years apart. And with the other one found out we had a common friend. In both situations we just looked at eachother with the deer in the headlight look. And at almost the same time both said, "that's enough talk about that" and steered clear of any such talk again.

I am not intrested in the least with having a common bond with the ladies I see. I want a stranger, flat out.

I had a client show up about a month ago and a few minutes into our session, he told me he knew me from my last RW place of employment. He is a P411 member and recognized me from my pictures. He said he had always wanted to meet me but was too shy to approach me. We know lots of the same people. I was nervous at first, but I pre-screen all my clients and he tends to hobby a bit. So, I figured we could both keep a secret. Turned out to be a really fun time.

Guys have bumped into me and I don't mind a quick head nod.... as long as you're not being obnoxious or shouting "Ryan" anywhere. However, I will never go up to anyone I recognize just in case of real world hazards.

Kendall- that almost sounded creepy yet it turned out to be a compliment with a bonus of a good time!

Never met her before, pictures were blurred, I go to the door,
knock on it, she answers, we are meeting for the first time,
door opens, I look into her eyes, she says, so are you going
to wash the car after you see me like you are suppose
to be doing in the first place---I say---So are you going
over to your mothers after we get through like you are
suppose to be doing.--- Her incall was nice.
(Just Kidding)

Someone should find The Saint's classic rebiew on this subject from ASPD. Nothing can top that one.

There is a former co-employee of mine who is a provider. We flirted a ton at work, but I was a supervisor of hers, so nothing ever developed. I moved to a new opportunity, and she left the old place of employment.

I would love to see her, but can't decide on whether to make the call/pm/email or not. Occasionally, we will email (once a quarter) in our RW capacities.

Should I move forward or leave well enough alone?

No. I would leave that alone.

+1 on that old ASPD review, TTH.

"Honey, this is Juicy Lucy. She's the one who showed me that thing you like so much."

There is a former co-employee of mine who is a provider. We flirted a ton at work, but I was a supervisor of hers, so nothing ever developed. I moved to a new opportunity, and she left the old place of employment.

I would love to see her, but can't decide on whether to make the call/pm/email or not. Occasionally, we will email (once a quarter) in our RW capacities.

Should I move forward or leave well enough alone? Originally Posted by Gentlemen Rendezvous

Man, I see an excellent fantasy in this scenario. Hell, I'd do it...seems as tho you hit it off with the flirting...you never know, man. She may have secretly wanted you and if that's the case, what a hot time it would be. You could finally 'supervise" her the way she always wanted you to! Don't tell her who you really are...I would LOVE to come across an opportunity like this!

Do It! you only live once!

Ha! Happened to me LAST WEEK!

I took a CE class maybe 3 months ago and there was a gentleman in the class whom I had some small talk with. By complete coincidence, he booked an appt with Ashley and sometime during thier session he realized that that hot girl in his class was me!

He wanted to come see me but didn't want it to be weird so the two of them kept quiet about the link and he booked a session with me. He knocked on the door, I let him in and we both gave eachother the up down, I will be honest and say at that point i still had no clue. Just thought he had a familiar face.

I got him on my table and started working on him, talking to him, and everythin started coming together. He finally said "I think we took a class together, Not that long ago." obviously I was taken back for just a second, I paused then decided that he was here for a good time, I'm here for a good time, and I am very good friends with the girl at the front desk. If I EVER needed his info, all I have to do is ask. I wouldn't, unless I had to, which I know I won't. We had a damn good time together, and I would welcome him back anytime!

Man, I see an excellent fantasy in this scenario. Hell, I'd do it...seems as tho you hit it off with the flirting...you never know, man. She may have secretly wanted you and if that's the case, what a hot time it would be. You could finally 'supervise" her the way she always wanted you to! Don't tell her who you really are...I would LOVE to come across an opportunity like this!

Do It! you only live once! Originally Posted by Prolongus

Or you can schedule an appt and tell her in advance that you want some role playing. She's the ex-employee and you're her old boss. Tell her to act surprised when she opens the door.

Think that would go well?

All. The. Time.

I'm scouting locations for my brother's bachelor party. Walk in to a club, eyes adjust (day shift) and up on the stage is a girl who appeared to be a recent co-worker. Last song of the set, so she'e wearing heels and a g-string. Wasn't sure it was her until the DJ announced her name as she left, she's using her real name which left no doubt at all. After an akward couple moments we had a drink and visited a bit. Eventually became friends with her boyfriend (the DJ) and it was all cool. But that first realization of who she was was crazy embarrasing.