Whats the right thing to do when providers photos are way out dated

Texxx1's Avatar
What's the appropriate action if the providers photos are like 20+ pounds over weight? Is it appropriate to 1. Leave for not being what you said you were. 2. Negotiate new amt since you don't look like your add. Is it okay for some of them to do this? Not all providers do this and some are gems even though they have quite a few pounds extra on board. I like having hotter than what I have available, and even a better experience which I can use by reviews. Sometimes I find people not being honest about the appearance of the provider.

Does anyone feel that their should be accurate photos? Especially if they are pricy.

Obviously bait and switch does not apply here.
Anna Nikkole's Avatar
If you are horney and stay you can mention appearance on reviews or comment on someone else's. If you walk away, I'm not sure if it's right to write am actual review but you certainly have the right to. I would just try not to bash her. Remember you had a choice to stay or go. There are ways to get your point across.

I would rather you pm me, then you aren't throwing me under the bus. I mean why try to screw with someone's business when you don't know what hardships she faces in her life. You could potentially be taking food off her very packed table.

Be kind and show some considerate tact
I am sure she vomited in her mouth a little bit when she looked threw the door peep hole and saw you standing there, so careful throwing rocks in glass houses, but, yes, pictures should be accurate. You always the right to leave, she always has the right to refuse service. Just be a gentleman when handling it. We are all human behind these fonts... well, most are anyway.
rmrstyle23's Avatar
Unless they're really old photos most women I meet on here looking a little smaller than their pics and how i would react would depend on how bad it was knock on wood I've never had to just leave
Hand her over some outdated old and damaged currency....... then just tell her your paying with what your getting......

..............let's see what she says...!! lol
albundy's Avatar
I am sure she vomited in her mouth a little bit when she looked threw the door peep hole and saw you standing there, so careful throwing rocks in glass houses..... Originally Posted by Mythos
Irrelevant. We are paying her, not the other way around. As long as he's clean, respectful, and not full of sores or some shit, his looks shouldn't matter.

She is the one advertising her "looks," not the john. If she doesn't look like her pictures, she should expect a negative review. False advertising.
Sistine Chapel's Avatar
What's the appropriate action if the providers photos are like 20+ pounds over weight? Is it appropriate to 1. Leave for not being what you said you were. 2. Negotiate new amt since you don't look like your add. Is it okay for some of them to do this? Not all providers do this and some are gems even though they have quite a few pounds extra on board. I like having hotter than what I have available, and even a better experience which I can use by reviews. Sometimes I find people not being honest about the appearance of the provider.

Does anyone feel that their should be accurate photos? Especially if they are pricy.

Obviously bait and switch does not apply here. Originally Posted by Texxx1

20 lbs over is a lot. I would leave I would never negotiate price under any circumstance. You're likely not going to get a good nut after having price negotiated over looks; that doesn't make sense to me. If I don't like the price I would keep window shopping. If I want a 170 lbs on a particular day then I would go for that I have nothing against big women. However, if I wanted 125lbs and you're 150lbs then it would piss me off.
As any provider won't hesitate to tell you, time is money. So leaving is one thing, but what about the time spent to travel to her incall? What about a missed opportunity within a hectic schedule? Are you going to get reimbursed for those? Just leaving doesn't cut it.
See if you can get it for free based on your good looks alone ;o) if the extra belly fat keeps her doable. If not you should take a benjie from her purse for your time.
Sistine Chapel's Avatar
As any provider won't hesitate to tell you, time is money. So leaving is one thing, but what about the time spent to travel to her incall? What about a missed opportunity within a hectic schedule? Are you going to get reimbursed for it? So just leaving doesn't cut it.
See if you can get it for free based on your good looks alone ;o) if the extra belly fat keeps her doable. If not you should take a benjie from her purse for your time. Originally Posted by Moto

If this is your only source of pussy then I guess I can understand to some degree. However, I wouldn't waste more money on top of the time if she's not who she says she is. Would you really enjoy yourself anyway?
Sistine, when you are old, fat, poor and unendowed like Moto, yes, no one else wants to see you. What's a guy to do?
tbone77494's Avatar
I would probably go through with it - shit, I'm there, I'm horny, and my time to hobby is limited so it isn't like I can reschedule for later that day. I also don't need a pimp encounter if I try to walk. I would then write a review that pointed out facts accurately - no bashing or unnecessary meanness.

I had one lady a while back turn me down. She said she decided, based on my reviews and other comments, that she thought I would be disappointed in her looks as she was a bit chubbier than I would like. I told her I didn't care-but she held firm. I was a little miffed as she was on my list for a while and has very hot photos. But I appreciated the honesty.
Sistine Chapel's Avatar
Sistine, when you are old, fat, poor and unendowed like Moto, yes, no one else wants to see you. What can a guy do? Originally Posted by Moto

Hey seriously my bad bro. I'm not saying it gives them a right to false advertise but I would just suggest if that's the case then don't be overly judgemental of the ladies you meet even if they're 20lbs over weight. You should be able to empathize with a little extra on a provider if you truly are at that place in your life and be thankful that anyone is screwing you whether you have an envelope or not. I would suggest maybe not trying for the escorts that are really hot and settle for some that may be just average that way you hedge against your own imperfections, expectations, and wasted time in the event she's not what you expected.

I know that sounds like I'm an asshole but I'm not trying to be just offering a suggestion.
Sistine Chapel's Avatar
I am sure she vomited in her mouth a little bit when she looked threw the door peep hole and saw you standing there, so careful throwing rocks in glass houses, but, yes, pictures should be accurate. You always the right to leave, she always has the right to refuse service. Just be a gentleman when handling it. We are all human behind these fonts... well, most are anyway. Originally Posted by Mythos

^ totally agree. Her pics should be 100% accurate. I do think some of the fellas here though forget what they look like when standing in front of a mirror. LOL I know the ladies wont admit it openly but I'm pretty sure most think their clients are totally disgusting. LOL

Some guys probably think being a hooker is easy because of all the tax free money but they deserve tax free money considering the risk and who they have to see. LOL and yes it is their decision for the most part but I could easily make a case they bring value and happiness to the real world. LOL
Personally, I think the best thing to do would to be just leave.

Do not try to negotiate anything about compensation. If a first time client did that to me in person, I would flip out thinking he was le, make him leave and then report him.

I also hate reading reviews when the gent says she was "nothing like he expected" but stayed anyways, and subsequently had a bad session, so then writes a bad review.

If the lady looks so far removed from her pics I do count that as a bait and switch, because it's not an accurate representation of what you thought you would be getting.

So, imo, the best policy is to just apologize and say that it isn't working for you and leave, then if you feel you should post publicly about it, go ahead and do so here.
If you walk or negotiate, she'll mark you as "flaky" that TardVerify database.