Leaving the Hobby - How a series of wonderful (and not so wonderful) Providers helped me make a life decision

Being a young man I found myself in a position I never thought I would . Actually considering settling down with one woman for the rest of my life. The issue being that growing up I had never really dated at all, I had been to some strip clubs, seen some online porn, even gotten a quick L1 at a AMP but the experience never really left me fulfilled or like I had experienced what was out there.

On the other hand my lady was amazing but with so much of the great unknown still left to be explored I found myself holding back. My lady had quite the history herself and so held no such reservations and knew where I was coming from. She even worried about me being jealous of her path. So with the help of a recommendation from a friend a plan was made, an account was created, and a new hobbyist hit the scene.

I have had the intense pleasure of meeting with a series of delightful creatures of different ages and colors who had their own way of catering to my desires and making my time with them a fun and in many cases unforgettable experiences. Some of you ladies have exceeded my wildest imaginations and even though I may have been just another client to some to me you were exotic, sensual, vixens and I treasured every single appointment. Black, white, latina, asian, every single lady I met had something unique and different to offer. You made things drama free and there were no hard feelings at any point during my time in the hobby. And to be perfectly honest I think my girl got off on it a little too knowing the intimate details in my reviews of my time spent with other women.

However everything has its time and place, and you ladies have helped me to realize that the grass isn't always greener. For all of the amazing skills and techniques out there I still want to be my with girl, I want to be tied to this ball and chain even knowing exactly whats out there. I finally knew for sure that I hadn't truly missed out on anything because my girl was 1 in a trillion. So this is goodbye, thank you to all the providers I had the pleasure of seeing and the hobbyist who enjoyed reading my posts and providing pointers/recommendations!But I surprised her with a ring today and my girl and I are tying the knot !!! So unless the Mrs. decides she still likes the idea of me coming out to play you may not hear from me again. Unless of course I can talk her into some couples sessions with providers who enjoy that type of thing . Thanks for reading and thanks for being part of this chapter in my life!

TLDR:
Inexperienced man used ECCIE to realize that he wanted to marry the love of his life. Thank you all!
pyramider's Avatar
Did they pee on you?
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  • BLM69
  • 02-23-2017, 02:44 PM
I don't have time to read the novel, anyone have a short version of it
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Wtf is wrong w you. Holy fuck
I don't have time to read the novel, anyone have a short version of it Originally Posted by BLM69
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sbqv3MwwVd8
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Good story with an excellent ending! I wish you and the lucky lady the best.
Awesome nice to see there are still happy endings 👼👼👼
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I don't have time to read the novel, anyone have a short version of it Originally Posted by BLM69
1) Shout out to all the hoes he fucked.
2) Either found a mid to high six figure hoe or she american pied his ass.
3) Not burning any bridges in case this shit don't work.
4) Thanks for helping me see this game is way over my head.
1) Shout out to all the hoes he fucked.
2) Either found a mid to high six figure hoe or she american pied his ass.
3) Not burning any bridges in case this shit don't work.
4) Thanks for helping me see this game is way over my head. Originally Posted by Gimmeallten$
here's what I got:
1) near-virgin GFs hoe
2) started hobbying to cure insecurity vis-a-vis said hoe
3) feels insecurity is cured, wants to wife hoe
Good luck Hun.... I wish you all the best!

Analeese
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Pro tip: guys that refer to their girlfriends as "my lady" come off sounding douchey.

Best of luck!
See you in a couple of months.
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I don't have time to read the novel, anyone have a short version of it Originally Posted by BLM69

The OP found a woman to take half of his money.
Good stuff OP. I'm sure everyone wishes you the best.

You needed to sow some oats. You've done that. Now you want to try the path. You will. If your girl really was turned on a bit by the intel, that's prolly a good sign for you going forward.

Go, See, Do. Do it right. Do it well. 2 cautions for you: 1. Marriages are long. They have stages. If you're leaving feeling good about the hobby, you'll likely be back at some point. I'll be cliche and say 7 yrs. 2. This might not be you, you're young, but people who write big long goodbye threads tend to be more likely to return. Just an observation.

Fair skies dude,
LnH
What the fuck did I just somewhat skim and not exactly read? SMH...you contributed nothing to the hobby, accomplished no great feats. I saw your review list, no top tier providers. Seems like you played it safe and are older than your "young" claim. Or maybe you are fat and ugly, that is what I'm betting on.

You paid for sex yet fucked no one hot. What the fuck is wrong with you? Please just leave the hobby now. Don't forget to ask the mods to deactivate or guest your account on your way out. Already forgot the OPs name, but yeah, you wont be missed! Peace out bruh!