Most claim to do this "on the side" having a great day job....
Many claim to be in college..... some working on their masters or PHDs.....
Then there are the claims of successful startup businesses they are involved in.....
Maybe some of those that have "made it" and left whoring behind can share those success stories...... I think some of these regular posting whores need some role models and something to aspire to.....
How many whores are
- home owners?
- tax payers?
- have medical insurance provided by their employer or they pay for?
- drive a car less than 3 years old financed and registered in their own name?
- have a 401(k)?
- have 3 months cost of living and bills set aside in savings?
- a credit score above 640 (not a great score but at least workable)?
- could lose their ability to whore tomorrow and have no worries paying bills and cost of living in the future?
How many whores, offered an opportunity for a six figure job tomorrow, could pass a background search, credit check and drug test?
The forum needs some success stories to motivate some of the ones that are trapped..... Guys like to fuck and those that have money will do so for years and years once they discover this as a hobby... Many here go back to ASPD days.....
But a whore here since ASPD days is a whore with a monkey on her back she can't escape..
Share some positive stories so that some of those stuck here might see there is hope.....
Week after week we see a new bitter half century old life failure turn to whoring to support herself..... It has to be discouraging to the younger ones here still holding on to the hope they can find a better life some day....
There are some "married out" stories that might be shareable.... it would be interesting to any of those and whether the guy was a hobbyist or oblivious to her secret life.....
Originally Posted by Whispers
Most claim to do this "on the side" having a great day job....
I do in fact have a day job I've been at since 2004 however I make no claims of it being great
Many claim to be in college..... some working on their masters or PHDs.....
I am not in college which I am sure is obvious. When I post I am a grammar nazis nightmare. Paragraph structure is non existent. Mostly cause I am too lazy to worry about it. I mean it's a board for sex.....
Then there are the claims of successful startup businesses they are involved in.....
I've considered buying stock in Energizer and Astroglide. However I have put those thoughts on hold to invest in a pyramid scheme ( I hear they are great )
Maybe some of those that have "made it" and left whoring behind can share those success stories...... I think some of these regular posting whores need some role models and something to aspire to.....
If they left it behind I am not sure they are hanging around the boards.
How many whores are
- home owners?
I do own my home and land.
- tax payers?
I file taxes for my real world job but obviously not for hobby.
- have medical insurance provided by their employer or they pay for?
I have had insurance with my employer since 2004.
- drive a car less than 3 years old financed and registered in their own name?
My car is a 2016 I am ahead on payments and it is in my name with no cosigner.
- have a 401(k)?
I do indeed with my job
- have 3 months cost of living and bills set aside in savings?
I have at least a years worth put back. As well as the total amount that I still owe on my car.
- a credit score above 640 (not a great score but at least workable)?
I know when I got my car my credit score was around that. One of my reasons for getting my car was to help build my credit. I've always owned so I don't have much credit history.
- could lose their ability to whore tomorrow and have no worries paying bills and cost of living in the future?
If I couldn't hobby anymore I could live on my real world job. It pays all of my bills I just have a tight budget for extra stuff.
How many whores, offered an opportunity for a six figure job tomorrow, could pass a background search, credit check and drug test?
All of the above. I had a background search done for my job. I was able to get my car without a cosigner and I do not do drugs. I don't even smoke cigarettes. (although I enjoy a drink now and again)
The forum needs some success stories to motivate some of the ones that are trapped..... Guys like to fuck and those that have money will do so for years and years once they discover this as a hobby... Many here go back to ASPD days.....
But a whore here since ASPD days is a whore with a monkey on her back she can't escape..
Share some positive stories so that some of those stuck here might see there is hope.....
Week after week we see a new bitter half century old life failure turn to whoring to support herself..... It has to be discouraging to the younger ones here still holding on to the hope they can find a better life some day....
There are some "married out" stories that might be shareable.... it would be interesting to any of those and whether the guy was a hobbyist or oblivious to her secret life.....
I have not been around long enough to say whats what but each person lives their life how they want. I am not discouraged by someone elses failure or success. I am not them and I am not walking the same path they are or did. We may walk paths that are alike but that doesn't mean the destination is the same. Hobby has been a good thing for me. I personally enjoy hobby way more than my real world job. It's a nice escape from my day to day grind and it has afforded me the chance to do things in my life that would have taken me a lot longer just working m reg job. I have been able to pay off some medical debt (insurance is good but it still doesn't cover enough) It had made it so I can pay for a trainer to help me get back into shape and healthy. I have been able to get a better car. Help family with things that they needed and I have been able to put a lot back so I have savings if something breaks or an emergency comes up. I don't have to stress if I need to take time off ect. There will come a point when I am ready to date again that I will walk away from hobby.
However for now I have goals I am working toward and I am not interested in dating. Being single 34 with no kids hobby is perfect for me right now. I get variety in my sex life. I have made some great friends. I have some interesting stories to tell in the nursing home one day and I can look back and say it was something I did by choice and truly had some fun doing it.