NCNS rant!

Alright, I don't know what is going on lately but I have just been NCNS'd for the second time this week, third time this month by three different providers. No, I'm not going to give their names because I don't need the drama. But they are all well reviewed, popular ladies on the board and they will read this. I'm starting to get a little peeved, ladies. I shaved my balls for nothing. Is this the new norm?

I shaved my balls for nothing. Originally Posted by FrankieP

Wow, line of the week right there. Congrats! (And, that sucks!)

Hell no its not the new norm.

But as long as guys won't put a girl on blast, those who don't know how to handle their business will just keep jerking guys around.

Then guys will double book plans A, B, and C to make sure they have the good time they were expecting. Then girls will double book just in case they were someone else's plan C, and the merry-go-round just keeps spinning.

Yes, putting an NCNS out there will cause some drama on a hooker board. And? Will you lose sleep over it? Will you lose your job, girlfriend, or best friend over it? Will your dog run away over it? Nope, nope, and nope. Like Gloria Gaynor, you will survive.

Yes, I have a selfish agenda here. If guys don't put the flakes on front street where they belong, how do those of us who have our shit together stand out? Not being a flake around here is somewhat akin to pissing yourself while wearing dark pants - it gives you a nice warm feeling, but no one really notices.

Sorry you got flaked out on, but don't reward and encourage bad behavior by keeping it to yourself. The next guy who was going to book with her, who then chooses to book with someone else more reliable will thank you, as will the reliable provider he sees instead of the flake.

/rant

'Tf.. Well I am personally glad that you shaved your balls. Nuthin better than sum smooth nutz. So it wasn't for nothing! Gotta keep up with those things.

Sorry about the ncns's Hun!

Right on Sins, well said.

Hell no its not the new norm.

But as long as guys won't put a girl on blast, those who don't know how to handle their business will just keep jerking guys around.

Then guys will double book plans A, B, and C to make sure they have the good time they were expecting. Then girls will double book just in case they were someone else's plan C, and the merry-go-round just keeps spinning.

Yes, putting an NCNS out there will cause some drama on a hooker board. And? Will you lose sleep over it? Will you lose your job, girlfriend, or best friend over it? Will your dog run away over it? Nope, nope, and nope. Like Gloria Gaynor, you will survive.

Yes, I have a selfish agenda here. If guys don't put the flakes on front street where they belong, how do those of us who have our shit together stand out? Not being a flake around here is somewhat akin to pissing yourself while wearing dark pants - it gives you a nice warm feeling, but no one really notices.

Sorry you got flaked out on, but don't reward and encourage bad behavior by keeping it to yourself. The next guy who was going to book with her, who then chooses to book with someone else more reliable will thank you, as will the reliable provider he sees instead of the flake.

/rant Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

2 of the three texted me within 24 hours with valid reasons (whether true or not) therefore aren't considered blast worthy. The one remaining has me concerned because it is so unlike her. Not gonna blast over that.

I really was just venting my frustrations because excusable or not it's happening way too often.

And Gemma, the balls weren't too out of control. I just would have saved the shave for the weekend.

Sorry this happened to you hun. I hope you find a good time before all the hair grows back! Lol so u don't have to shave again!! Sorry babe :/

I hate these threads. You don't want to cause drama so you just want sympathy? There are girls with poor tcb skills which we all know but no one ever says who they are. That certainly helps this community.

Name names or it didnt happen and this thread is a waste

so sorry that happened

hope ya get some soon babe!

Like I said guys, I was just venting my frustrations. Not like I can complain to all my buddies or my SO. If you don't care then dont read it. Pretty simple.

Your thread was NCNS Rant, kinda hard to know not to read a thread if there is no sign it doesnt have any value from the subject. I know how you feel, but as I said it doesnt help anyone to know something is happening but no information.

Its your information to share as you wish though.

i agree with sins..you should mention the names so atleast others will know.
Also the same provider will think twice before doing that again..
Atleast for the sake of the ladies who keep up their time you should mention it is what my opinion

Not trying to be a bitch, but I agree with Sins. I hate NCNS, so I don't do it. There a lot of BSC behaviors that go unreported, and guys continue to patron these ladies, while there are others that have earned their solid reputations. I also think there is a difference in "valid reasons", and excuses. I truly hope that these ladies are ok, and nothing serious happened with them.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope you have better luck in the future. Maybe try Sins.... sorry couldn't help myself!