I been seeing a few rip offs and drama that has occurred in this website in the Austin forums. Now here are some tips from me to prevent or stop from getting ripped off or any occurrence that becomes an unwanted mess.
This is to the providers:
Stalking problem--
When you get unwanted text messages from your cell phone from a guy or someone who found your number and threatened you. When you log onto Eccie.net, remember to show the moderator that text message instead of posting the whole info in alert.
-- That way it will prevent from future unwanted drama from happening to you or your private lives outside.
LE Problem--
When meeting someone you haven't met yet, it's always good to have a short conversation to screen a bit more. Sometimes you never know who that guy is. That goes for the lovely women in Eccie.net. You will never know if that guy is LE and knows where you live (apartment incall wise).
-- This way, no one gets into trouble or has to quit because of legal issues with the LE or feds. That goes for being near the WilCo area.
Drama problems and handling a canceled appointment--
Let the hobbyist know that you are going to run late because of a problem in family or let the hobbyist know why you do not want to see them anymore or any kind of occurrence.
-- Example: Let's say if you were handled wrong by a hobbyist (this does not go for the hobbyist of Eccie's and the providers of Eccie. But some of the lurkers who you do not know well enough or certain providers who have a pimp or sorts which I will get to with the hobbyist in a minute). What should be done with this part is:
1. If the hobbyist is a lurker, make sure he first get all his screening done. Also, add a few questions in to make sure he is not a LE or a criminal ready to rob you or try to hurt you of any kind.
2. Have a back up. If you know a good friend from this site or a regular client, he will be in the defense or have the regular client park around your incall to make sure the person who visits a lovely from here isn't handled wrong.
3. Another good advice is to keep information of that person that has no history of hobbying and send it to a moderator so he can help you from not getting mugged, hurt, killed, or rapped.
4. Do not attempt to deal with the guy yourself. It will become a hassle.
This will help you from having a problem with a hobbyist you haven't met before or has never been on eccie.net or P411.
Now this part is for the hobbyist.
Crooked Backpage Ads--
To find the right lovely, you must combine with some of the regular members who will direct you to tineye. That site itself will link you to a legit or a flake. Some of the photos they use are either of a porn star or a well known provider that they have stolen. Like that quote said, "If it doesn't fit, you must acquit."
Preventing rip offs--
Some guys have a knack for searching for providers on Backpage.com. Sometimes you will run into a legit provider and sometimes you will run into a shoddy provider that has a pimp. To make sure you want to find the best ones, go into sites like P411 or Eccie.net before your little head goes to them. If you see bad reviews of said provider then look further for a lovely. There are good reviews and bad reviews. You have to let yourself think before you make a decision. Also, you must read the ad itself. For example some will say things like, No Ripoff or No Drama. That means either that person had a bad review. Not all ads on Backpage will say that. But, I rarely use backpage, so there.
Pimp Alert--
If some of the hobbyist look into backpage, please be alert of the pimp. He is usually the one that will make an ad for that woman that works under him. I will give you a hint in e-mail. I learned this being in the new internet cafe or libraries or some of them post even on the ACC or UT campuses using a fake student card because usually they do not have their own Laptop or PC and sometimes have to steal one to make an ad for the provider that works under them. Usually, the case with this is not with all Backpage ads but with only a few. For example Aquafina/Cheyenne could have a pimp. Then there is some that are independent and are pimp free like for example Elle and Busty who are well known and legit to the max.
I hope this information helps to keep the playing field safe on both the hobbyist and provider's side. And I hope all of you have a good weekend.
- The_Leopard
- 05-21-2010, 02:38 PM
- Guest062010
- 05-21-2010, 02:53 PM
OMG. I'm so glad I'm retired. Fa real Yo! ~K
- lisa.lisa0302
- 05-21-2010, 04:21 PM
Damn
Well that just about sums it up......nice read.
Well that just about sums it up......nice read.
- sixxbach
- 05-21-2010, 06:57 PM
I been seeing a few rip offs and drama that has occurred in this website in the Austin forums. Now here are some tips from me to prevent or stop from getting ripped off or any occurrence that becomes an unwanted mess.great post BUT trust your gut instinct........... if something is telling you NO......... LISTEN............. you will NEVER be ripped off if u listen to your gut..........
This is to the providers:
Stalking problem--
When you get unwanted text messages from your cell phone from a guy or someone who found your number and threatened you. When you log onto Eccie.net, remember to show the moderator that text message instead of posting the whole info in alert.
-- That way it will prevent from future unwanted drama from happening to you or your private lives outside.
LE Problem--
When meeting someone you haven't met yet, it's always good to have a short conversation to screen a bit more. Sometimes you never know who that guy is. That goes for the lovely women in Eccie.net. You will never know if that guy is LE and knows where you live (apartment incall wise).
-- This way, no one gets into trouble or has to quit because of legal issues with the LE or feds. That goes for being near the WilCo area.
Drama problems and handling a canceled appointment--
Let the hobbyist know that you are going to run late because of a problem in family or let the hobbyist know why you do not want to see them anymore or any kind of occurrence.
-- Example: Let's say if you were handled wrong by a hobbyist (this does not go for the hobbyist of Eccie's and the providers of Eccie. But some of the lurkers who you do not know well enough or certain providers who have a pimp or sorts which I will get to with the hobbyist in a minute). What should be done with this part is:
1. If the hobbyist is a lurker, make sure he first get all his screening done. Also, add a few questions in to make sure he is not a LE or a criminal ready to rob you or try to hurt you of any kind.
2. Have a back up. If you know a good friend from this site or a regular client, he will be in the defense or have the regular client park around your incall to make sure the person who visits a lovely from here isn't handled wrong.
3. Another good advice is to keep information of that person that has no history of hobbying and send it to a moderator so he can help you from not getting mugged, hurt, killed, or rapped.
4. Do not attempt to deal with the guy yourself. It will become a hassle.
This will help you from having a problem with a hobbyist you haven't met before or has never been on eccie.net or P411.
Now this part is for the hobbyist.
Crooked Backpage Ads--
To find the right lovely, you must combine with some of the regular members who will direct you to tineye. That site itself will link you to a legit or a flake. Some of the photos they use are either of a porn star or a well known provider that they have stolen. Like that quote said, "If it doesn't fit, you must acquit."
Preventing rip offs--
Some guys have a knack for searching for providers on Backpage.com. Sometimes you will run into a legit provider and sometimes you will run into a shoddy provider that has a pimp. To make sure you want to find the best ones, go into sites like P411 or Eccie.net before your little head goes to them. If you see bad reviews of said provider then look further for a lovely. There are good reviews and bad reviews. You have to let yourself think before you make a decision. Also, you must read the ad itself. For example some will say things like, No Ripoff or No Drama. That means either that person had a bad review. Not all ads on Backpage will say that. But, I rarely use backpage, so there.
Pimp Alert--
If some of the hobbyist look into backpage, please be alert of the pimp. He is usually the one that will make an ad for that woman that works under him. I will give you a hint in e-mail. I learned this being in the new internet cafe or libraries or some of them post even on the ACC or UT campuses using a fake student card because usually they do not have their own Laptop or PC and sometimes have to steal one to make an ad for the provider that works under them. Usually, the case with this is not with all Backpage ads but with only a few. For example Aquafina/Cheyenne could have a pimp. Then there is some that are independent and are pimp free like for example Elle and Busty who are well known and legit to the max.
I hope this information helps to keep the playing field safe on both the hobbyist and provider's side. And I hope all of you have a good weekend. Originally Posted by The_Leopard
- The_Leopard
- 05-21-2010, 07:17 PM
great post BUT trust your gut instinct........... if something is telling you NO......... LISTEN............. you will NEVER be ripped off if u listen to your gut.......... Originally Posted by sixxbachThat is true. And some of the fellows need to learn and pay close attention to backpage ads with a passion. Search engine with the links and the whole possibly of a good or bad post.
I had accidently seen some undercover stuff at UT campus where some guy who looks like he is a hoodrat would get in and make an account with the lady he has working under him and made an ad for her. And a few hobbyist and providers have learned this by the reading of the ads like:
"She is here for only 6 days" which shows that a pimp made it for her.
Sometimes, that can be anything or sometimes it's a hard guess and it makes the game more of a curiosity treasure. I always see it as a bait trap.
- sixxbach
- 05-21-2010, 09:05 PM
That is true. And some of the fellows need to learn and pay close attention to backpage ads with a passion. Search engine with the links and the whole possibly of a good or bad post.im not prefect. Hell, I tried a ECCIE verified provider recently and had a shitty experience lately BUT she did have mixed reviews. I should have said "fuck it" BUT the little head prevailed. It happens to all. The more you hobby, the greater the chance you will have a shitty experience with a gal. Yes, it does go BOTH ways. I am sure the more a gal provides, she will eventually encounter a "dick". Just trust the voice inside more often. I think you should WITHOUT a doubt want to see a gal not convince yourself that it will be a good session and take a chance.
I had accidently seen some undercover stuff at UT campus where some guy who looks like he is a hoodrat would get in and make an account with the lady he has working under him and made an ad for her. And a few hobbyist and providers have learned this by the reading of the ads like:
"She is here for only 6 days" which shows that a pimp made it for her.
Sometimes, that can be anything or sometimes it's a hard guess and it makes the game more of a curiosity treasure. I always see it as a bait trap. Originally Posted by The_Leopard
- Guest092810
- 05-22-2010, 05:38 AM
Nevr a bad experience....
- Sweet Heather
- 05-22-2010, 12:04 PM
Wow. That's alot of well thought out and valuable information. Maybe should be a sticky? Everyone should read that. H