So recently Im told by a few guy friends that Im a "player" because men in my life tend to have a 30day or less expiration date, and well Im not very good at being faithful--always a backup plan haha. Guess its due to past relationships, but I feel Im not a player. Im pretty honest with the guys and upfront about how I feel, and most know they wont last longer than the milk in the fridge. Some have tried to win me over, but I get totally bored. Honestly probably why I still dabble in the hobby, I like variety!! If I weren't allergic to latex I would be a total whore! I'm getting tired of the massage with no happy ending for me.
So tell me, what is a player by your definition?
And what is a good brand of non latex condoms? Last one I used broke mid stroke and I freaked out so I haven't been very sexually active casually.
- Chellablaine
- 01-20-2011, 08:37 AM
- Nina Rae
- 01-20-2011, 08:49 AM
As to the definition...I'm not sure how variety makes you a player? Maybe if you're lying to multiple men about whether you're seeing others...yeah. But dropping one for another or being honest and telling them "You're not the only one" seems a-ok to me.
On the condom thing....have you tried polyurethane condoms? Lamb skin are too risky for me. They break too often. But there are a few different poly brands (usually only one at a time in the store), all of which were good for me. They just needed a little extra lube to be comfortable. Good luck with finding the one for you.
On the condom thing....have you tried polyurethane condoms? Lamb skin are too risky for me. They break too often. But there are a few different poly brands (usually only one at a time in the store), all of which were good for me. They just needed a little extra lube to be comfortable. Good luck with finding the one for you.