what or who

So I decided that I would hobby on Saturday and as I was asking myself "what do I want to do" I realized it was more of a question of Who, not what. So, who do I want to do? Such a fun question to contemplate.

For me it's always "who". The "what" never enters my mind until the moment arrives. That way I'm not distracted or let down. And very often I'm pleasantly surprised

I understand the "what" question. I have a little fetish that I have wanted to play for a long time, but it can't be too much of a role play or it ruins the effect. So I finally got the nerve to ask for it with a nice lady here and told her what I wanted and how and why. That was about 2 or 3 days before I stopped by. She forgot!!!! It was a bummer!!!!! To this day I know she doesn't know she forgot.

Sometimes for me it's more what. Then, I need to find a who that will what me.