References

I give refrences to ladies that will not give me a refrences and then comment on my post saying they always do. No gents, they do not. I've waited for long time just to be ghosted by a provider for a reference because she has an issue. Just saying if you do not give me a reference, do not contact me for one. Period .
If you dont like what i am saying evaluate your practices.
Sick of all this cock blocking by girls trying to trap men that are all ready taken.
Sorry you are still having troubles. Why can’t we all just get along? I would think there is enough for everybody.
Apparently not.
But who cares right!??
Doug48's Avatar
I didn’t know that was a thing until I tried setting something up with a provider. I mostly have seen pornstars in the past and they are the worse for returning a message back to someone I’m trying schedule something with. I have recently seen someone that is willing to do it now but that may change as they get out of the business. Anyways...
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I'm sorry you are dealing with that. If providers don't want to give references to keep each other safe, they should atleast be willing to give references for the clients that spend their money with them.
Exactly. But no. Thats why I have the same people trying to use me as a reference because they can't get one. Why keep spending the money with them? They do. But I started putting a limit and time frame for my references. Not to be a bitch, but if your spending money with others ask them too not just me.
But let me ask for a reference, I get ghosted. I don't read my email is one.
I don't check my phone is one.
Or this is the best, no answer at all.
Its all good. Karma has always been good to me.. stay safe lovers
Not mad about anything just saying my peace.
It shouldn't happen but it does. When I'm going thru the screening process and I have the same one cock block me. I won't see them until they play the game right.
I'm sure...
Then there are some of us who have been out of the hobby for a bit. Anybody that we could have used as references have retired or moved on.