A helpful suggestion

Hello Gentlemen,

I have been receiving several emails lately from gentlemen asking me certain questions that can be answered by simply visiting my website. It gets very frustrating. Due to the fact that I have a regular full time job, I don't have a lot of time to stop what I am doing to answer questions about myself like my age, where I am located, what kind of information is needed to get verified, if I am 420 friendly, if I have toys for men, if I smoke, and etc. This is why we ladies have a website. Gentlemen, if there is a lady that you are interested in visiting with, may I suggest you check out their website first before asking certain questions.

Okay, I am done ranting!

Hugs,
Juliette

Juliette,

Sounds like you might need an assistant. I can speak from the guys perspective. Yes a lot of info can be gathered from visiting but some guys like a more personal touch. I know for me. The best session are when you build up a repport with someone thru email exchanges. Not sure if these guys are fishing for a more personal touch or just some random question.

Rrabbit6926

Thanks for the feedback Rabbit. Because I am very personal, I enjoy exchanging many emails beforehand as well as a phone call. After all, I am not shy about sharing the fact that my brain is my number 1 sex organ. However; when someone writes me and the only words in their email is "How much do you weigh" and that's all, I doubt they are trying to build up a rapport with me. Just today someone wrote me with the following words, "Are you 420 friendly." That's it! Didn't even introduce himself, say hello or kiss my asset. Had he visited my website, he would have found his answer. When you get 3 or 4 of these 1 line questions each day, it gets somewhat frustrating.

Hugs,
Juliette

Sounds like you might need an assistant. I can speak from the guys perspective. Yes a lot of info can be gathered from visiting but some guys like a more personal touch. I know for me. The best session are when you build up a repport with someone thru email exchanges. Not sure if these guys are fishing for a more personal touch or just some random question.

Rrabbit6926[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the feedback Rabbit. Because I am very personal, I enjoy exchanging many emails beforehand as well as a phone call. After all, I am not shy about sharing the fact that my brain is my number 1 sex organ. However; when someone writes me and the only words in their email is "How much do you weigh" and that's all, I doubt they are trying to build up a rapport with me. Just today someone wrote me with the following words, "Are you 420 friendly." That's it! Didn't even introduce himself, say hello or kiss my asset. Had he visited my website, he would have found his answer. When you get 3 or 4 of these 1 line questions each day, it gets somewhat frustrating.

Hugs,
Juliette

Sounds like you might need an assistant. I can speak from the guys perspective. Yes a lot of info can be gathered from visiting but some guys like a more personal touch. I know for me. The best session are when you build up a repport with someone thru email exchanges. Not sure if these guys are fishing for a more personal touch or just some random question.

Rrabbit6926 Originally Posted by Gfe Juliette

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To me, going through an assistant would make it feel less personal. I agree, Juliette. Guys just need to fish or cut bait. You're not looking for a pen pal. I can attest to the fact that you are more than happy to carry on an email thread, but it's got to be in a professional and courteous manner. If someone has the time to write a bunch of emails, they've got time to look at your website. Plus, a providers website can also be very exciting to look at.

Lol I get asked where I am all the time even tho I have a schedule on my website and often keep one in my signature in BRIGHT RED. It's unreal haha. I have a civvie job as well so I feel your pain Juliette.

Lol I get asked where I am all the time even tho I have a schedule on my website and often keep one in my signature in BRIGHT RED. It's unreal haha. I have a civvie job as well so I feel your pain Juliette. Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Sometimes we guys need a little help and some need a lot of help

Sometimes we guys need a little help and some need a lot of help Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

And some will just fail regardless of how much help you give them.



Cheers,

bcg

This is not surprising. This kind of thing happens everywhere -- some people will ignore or otherwise not follow clear communications. It gets old after a while and one learns that it is just part of the reality.

Not making excuses for it. Maybe politely tell people to see your website and move on without spending much time on it.