How long should you wait for a provider?

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How long do you wait for a provider to call you back? 3 to 4 hours? Do you call two providers and see which one responds first?
How long do you wait for a provider to call you back? 3 to 4 hours? Do you call two providers and see which one responds first? Originally Posted by pickupkid
Don't wait clients move on to another escort.
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  • 05-18-2016, 10:13 AM
It depends. I rarely assume a lady is longing around the phone just waiting for me to call her. Quite honestly, I don't know how interested I would be in seeing someone who had nothing else going on in their life. 24 hours I conside eminently ŕeasonable, and for certain ladies, 2 or 3 days.
Forever
Half hour. I'll text or call in that time to try and find out what's up. If I don't hear anything I'll move on.

If she's in contact with me to let me know she's running late then I'll wait longer. I often have a limited window for a date so this doesn't always work out. I really don't want to see a lady who's rushed to get ready to see me, she likely won't be at her best, the sheets might still be sweaty from her last visitor.
Forever Originally Posted by lookn4boobies
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  • 05-18-2016, 06:00 PM
If you call and she doesn't answer you should leave a voicemail with the appropriate time to call back. Otherwise you could wait up to an hour, I personally don't call back after the hour wait period if there was no voicemail.
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An hour is sufficient, and then it's fine to move on to Plan B. If the original provider gets back to you after you book an appointment with a back-up, you politely say you were in need of a short notice session and reached out to someone else when you weren't available, but will be happy to try again in the future.
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I agree to wait at least an hour for her to reply. It also depends how horny I am and really want some relief. At times I call with no answer, The voice box is full or they have not set it up yet. If they don't answer then I will text and times get a quicker response that way and set up an appt. that way. So I say it's just up the individual on how long they want to wait for an answer and how much time they have to get away for some fun.
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I usually text that morning to see if she is around for the day and give references and such. I give her a couple hours. i wouldn't keep texting, that is creepy.
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Another important thing-- when you leave a VM or a text... give her a window of when it is safe to call back. If I miss a call from say... 3 hours ago.. I'd hate to call or text back and risk putting someone in a compromising situation. Sure, one SHOULD be using a hobby phone-- but we all know that doesn't always happen.
Depends?

If you are pre-booking a few days in advance, then 24 hours is reasonable.

If you are trying to find a lunchtime treat then the below is a good approach.

An hour is sufficient, and then it's fine to move on to Plan B. If the original provider gets back to you after you book an appointment with a back-up, you politely say you were in need of a short notice session and reached out to someone else when you weren't available, but will be happy to try again in the future. Originally Posted by TittiesNBeer
If you need someone RIGHT NOW then you should reach out via text/call to the ladies that have already seen or screened you. Text one you'd like to see and one who is reliable, when one confirms IMMEDIATELY give the other one notice you are no longer looking but will try seeing her again in the future. The bold is important don't forget to do that or you could be labeled a time waster.
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I always try to respond within a timely manner. If some time has passed since the phone call came through, I will send a text. If I don't get a response I safely assume that the person is busy. It is a good idea to leave a VM or send a text with a time frame to call back or if you wish not to be called back at all let them know. Communication is key
A problem with having sex from online women is you have to schedule with them. Scheduling sex already puts a low mood in place because who knows how I will feel two days from now, but that is my slot so have to go with it. Depends on how bad you want to see a particular girl. Some contact me next day, some within 2 hours, all depends. Then all the screening procedures differ had one lady want to call me at my place of work to verify, did not see her. Had one lady want my real life info and said no problen as soon as you give me yours. Wanted to see my driver's license, I said okay get yours out and we exchange at same time. Did not see her, lol. One lady waited until I got to her in call and wanted to see some of my identification, she thought she had me because I was there ready to go. No, did not see her either. It is all a crap shoot.
I know they want to be safe and so do i, not giving a whore my real life info that is why we have these boards. If I have to give up that info so does she.
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It depends. I don't do right now and prefer a few hours notice minimum if not 24 hours





Haha with that type of attitude I know a lot of providers won't see you anyway. That's very disrespectful
A problem with having sex from online women is you have to schedule with them. Scheduling sex already puts a low mood in place because who knows how I will feel two days from now, but that is my slot so have to go with it. Depends on how bad you want to see a particular girl. Some contact me next day, some within 2 hours, all depends. Then all the screening procedures differ had one lady want to call me at my place of work to verify, did not see her. Had one lady want my real life info and said no problen as soon as you give me yours. Wanted to see my driver's license, I said okay get yours out and we exchange at same time. Did not see her, lol. One lady waited until I got to her in call and wanted to see some of my identification, she thought she had me because I was there ready to go. No, did not see her either. It is all a crap shoot.
I know they want to be safe and so do i, not giving a whore my real life info that is why we have these boards. If I have to give up that info so does she. Originally Posted by Boudin3112