First off, I'm sorry this happened to you, but I can sorta see how it did. You see, if you have some decency in you that's a hook these girls can use. So in a small way you can at least feel good that you're willing to help someone out.
I've been in the same situation more than once, but for small change, luckily. I'm really good at filtering the bullshit, but some of these girls are far better at scamming than I am at catching what's going on so I'm taking a much more guarded stance with providers. I have tighter boundaries for what I consider acceptable behavior (TCB, hygiene, and those free meal requests) and I'm not shy about politely, but firmly enforcing them. As I get to know a girl better and she routinely demonstrates she's trustworthy I'll relax the boundaries. That's all we can do.
Good luck at setting the new boundaries, and don't forget, you gotta dig through the dirt to find the gems, and there are gems out there for sure.
Before I answer the question, I want to respond to a few people. To the people who have PMed me telling me what they know about this group of girls, you don’t know as much as you think. For every PM I got, I got a different story from someone who THINKS they have an inside scoop and NONE of the stories are the same. What does this tell us? It tells us what we already know. In our lil fantasy world we are in, we rarely, rarely, rarely get the entire truth, even if we think we have some kind of exclusive info that everyone else does not. To the people who have said or who think “sucks for you to get got like that. I am smarter. That would never happen to me”, at least I have enough balls to admit when I got suckered. If it makes you feel better to think/know that you have better game, then good for you. I was just trying to add another piece to the crazy puzzle.
Now, for the question….. Before this, I THOUGH that I was pretty good at deciphering the BS from reality. I THOUGH that I was good at reading people being smart about things. Guess this shows that even if you are good at that, you can still get one pulled over on you. With all that said, I would have to say, it all depends. It depends on the dollar amount. It depends on the story/situation. It depends on the agreement that is decided up on. I won’t say emphatically no. Even though this (and other situations on the board) have jaded me more and more, and has really changed who I decide to communicate with, see, and spend my time, money and resources on, I am not going to let change what I do. (for now). I am just going to be a even more smarter with things. You don’t want to totally change your way of thinking because you don’t want that change of mind set to take away from the pleasure of this hobby. If that wall goes up, I am afraid that the genuine connections and chemistry that you can get from someone that makes for exceptional encounters will be lost. *It does however make me contemplate the blue pill/red pill scenario that was posted in a thread a while back.
Originally Posted by atxwrx