question for the guys....

I have been exchanging e-mails with a lady that I used to see a lot when I lived out of state. I was saying that I think most guys are like me in that a- sometimes you would like to see a lady who is pretty good in the sack and to whom you can relate, and b - sometimes you just want a gal who is great in the sack and has great skills and you don't really care about whether you can relate to her or not.

For me, most of the time I want choice a, but there are also times I just want to cum with a gal with great skills and I really don't care about her personality, etc. The provider with whom I was exchanging e-mails thought guys wanted MUCH more of choice b.

What do you guys say? Obviously if you could have both all the time, it would be great. How much does personality and the ability to relate to you count in a provider?

Charlie

a, only

/shrug

This is the whole beauty vs brains thing.

I don't feel like I have to make that choice, I get to have both in my partner.

So if you are PAYING for it, why shouldn't you also have both?

If you can't find a woman you can relate to that is great in bed......dunno, your picker must be broken.

My head hurts! To many dumb choices I pick C-going to pattaya

All people are different. One can find different aspects to enjoy with each provider I'd imagine the same would be true for enjoying clients in various ways. We all bring differrent things to the table. It isn't necessarily having one or the other, it's more of a matter of what type of relationship it is as a whole (or would that be spelled:
h o l e) I dunno.

Well, as OP stated, having both is always the best.

I tend to do multi-hour visits, so in that case, both must be there. Espcecially if I want to see the provider multiple times.

But if all I did were single hour visits then again, both would be best...but in that case if option A was strong, I could fight thru not having both, LOL

Dear OP,

Honest question you have posed. Guess it's like everything else in life........balance!!

Sometimes I want to sit down and savory a meal for a long time......and................. .then there are times I am starving and woooooof the food down.

Need I say more...?........

For me the question is, "When your eating her pussy is she going to moan or giggle?"
OR "Do you want to wake up and see her face in the morning?"

All actually the same questions, they are just not mentioned by Darwin

If she offers great BBBJ/CIM than I'll take either, would rather have A but B is perfectly acceptable in this case.

A is best but if A+B =C can't complain either!
It's simple math

For me the question is, "When your eating her pussy is she going to moan or giggle?"

Originally Posted by 2Lucky1

Why not both?

Why not both? Originally Posted by SillyGirl

Hmmm, why not... I was just thinking of the girl whoes giggle got in the way...
Not as bad as the girl who made her next appointment on her cell while I was going at it. LOL

Say SillyGirl, why is that picture in your avatar no where else to be found?
I want to use it for background... Love your leggs as well...

Hon you can option temp rights...

Hon you can option temp rights... Originally Posted by SillyGirl

K, Not sure what you mean by that, but that was my version of a compliment, LOL

2L, put a comma after "Hon" and turn 'temp' into temporary, consider what an 'option' contract is and you'll get it; and not to worry, you're okay, she did take it as a compliment by responding with a little flirtatious undertone for you. Can't beat that, eh.