Thoughts requested on younger providers (18-22)

iso_women's Avatar
I'm 39 and made the mistake once when I was 28 of going on a blind date with a girl who was 20. I found her so immature that I resolved to stick closer to my own age. It wasn't that she was rude, she just hadn't lived much life, so the maturity that comes with making a house or rent payment, utilities, car payment just hadn't gotten to her yet. I felt like my kid sister was tagging along.

When I started hobbying I have tended toward the older providers; of the several I have met only one has been under 30. I don't have a thing for MILFs or Cougars, I just don't want to waste time in conversation with a child. I am also concerned that the younger ones don't have much experience in getting in a drawn out pleasure session, I suspect that "bang it out quick" is common, again, because they haven't spent time getting to learn about men.

All of that said, the young ones are extremely hot. I am headed out to Vegas for Superbowl weekend and am perusing the ads here and on backpage making a call list of providers so that if I need to get screened that is covered in advance or if my first choice isn't available I have a fallback. In looking over some of these ads, some of these 18-21 year olds have bodies that just don't quit. No blemishes, no sagging, the tummies are firm and the butts are tight.

I'm curious to hear some comment on this. How have y'all found the sub 25's to be in their maturity?
Naomi4u's Avatar
There are some very mature 21 year olds trust me. You just need to keep looking. Try sending email first to see how she responds. You can find out a lot by how a person writes.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
I think under 21 (but at least 18) starts getting into the creepy factor ...just my opinion.
I have been seeing a young UTR in Austin for the last 1-1/2 years, and she is now 21, sort of freaked me out at first myself be in higher 40's but was quite amazed just how mature she was and how much I really like not only having her is that special PSE format but the fact that I can just have dinner or lunch with her and carry on a really mature conversation. They are out there, just have to search and find....

Yea it's kind of freaky at first but......damn it's fun.
burkalini's Avatar
I only saw one young one that I liked in all my hobbying. The ones between 35 and 45 were much more enjoyable in both the sex and the conversation. Women peak during that age and it really shows in bed
Cpalmson's Avatar
I think it is a YMMV big time in this area. Personally, I prefer the younger providers. I like their hot looks and all. Yeah, some are immature or inexperienced in the hobby. However, if you are an experienced hobbyist, you can help the younger providers "develop". I just think that you have to talk with them before the date, get to know them, have them get to know you, express what your expectations are from her and then go from there. The younger gals may think you are a one and done guy or that is par for the course. If you help them understand what guys are looking for in a provider, then you are only doing her and future clients a favor. BTW, I more than willing to help educate any 18-22 provider who are looking out for how to please a client
Sweet N Little's Avatar
help educate??? eeeekkk ok ya'll are starting to get into the perv zone , i thought you had to be 21 to even be on here .
shorty's Avatar
My problem with seeing someone that young is:
1.) She would be young enough to be my daughter, if I had one. If a guy likes them around 18-19, supposedly still innocent looking, then that guy probably got a teen fantasy. 18-19 wouldn't be the youngest that he would see someone especially if they had a friend still in school. Can you say jail bait!!

2.) Maturity level would play a big part in someone that young. You have the potential of them calling all the time and the SO finds out. Also, Reliable would come's to mind. Will she show up at set time or go party with her friends? There's just too many unanswered questions about a young provider between 18-22. Yes, there are some mature ladies at 21-22 but there few and far between.

Personally, I like the provider's to be around 25-32. As I get older, I believe the youngest that I would see someone would be 25.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
My problem with seeing someone that young is:
1.) She would be young enough to be my daughter, if I had one. If a guy likes them around 18-19, supposedly still innocent looking, then that guy probably got a teen fantasy. 18-19 wouldn't be the youngest that he would see someone especially if they had a friend still in school. Can you say jail bait!!

2.) Maturity level would play a big part in someone that young. You have the potential of them calling all the time and the SO finds out. Also, Reliable would come's to mind. Will she show up at set time or go party with her friends? There's just too many unanswered questions about a young provider between 18-22. Yes, there are some mature ladies at 21-22 but there few and far between.

Personally, I like the provider's to be around 25-32. As I get older, I believe the youngest that I would see someone would be 25. Originally Posted by shorty
A wise man you are shorty
iso_women's Avatar
Shorty: The problem is that it isn't about age, it is about looks. Staff edit...no mention of underage persons in any way...CC
I have no interest in going anywhere near illegal territory; I prefer the girls with some curves anyway. More than that, though, I prefer they have a clue, both in conversation and in bed. If I have to choose I'll take older and wiser than young and inexperienced.

The main reason I am struggling with this is that a provider in Vegas does BBBJCIM, something I like, and she is only 21. She was recommended by a mod, though and her pictures are smoking hot.
daty/o's Avatar
If you help them understand what guys are looking for in a provider, then you are only doing her and future clients a favor. BTW, I more than willing to help educate any 18-22 provider who are looking out for how to please a client Originally Posted by Cpalmson
help educate??? eeeekkk ok ya'll are starting to get into the perv zone , i thought you had to be 21 to even be on here . Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
This type of selfless dedication always gets to me. CP?, what can I do to help?
shorty's Avatar
ISO: Yes, I do see where your coming from as far as being young with a smoking hot body. It's just guys need to be careful when looking at providers between 18-21. If she's on the low end of the number, then that's when you need to be concerned with underage. However, most providers don't tell us their correct age anyway. Usually you can add 2-4yrs on advertised age.
Sweet N Little's Avatar
ISO: Yes, I do see where your coming from as far as being young with a smoking hot body. It's just guys need to be careful when looking at providers between 18-21. If she's on the low end of the number, then that's when you need to be concerned with underage. However, most providers don't tell us their correct age anyway. Usually you can add 2-4yrs on advertised age. Originally Posted by shorty
smart again shorty, '
i would hope the mods close this thread since it seems to keep bordering on underage talk (totally wrong & totally creepy !! ) . Just my opinion and im out
ya'll have a great evening
Chica Chaser's Avatar
There is value to this thread but lets make sure that we keep this on track please. NO mention of anyone underage permitted in any way...period.
Chica Chaser's Avatar
The main reason I am struggling with this is that a provider in Vegas does BBBJCIM, something I like, and she is only 21. She was recommended by a mod, though and her pictures are smoking hot. Originally Posted by iso_women
I believe I am the Mod in question! ISO, check the Vegas forum, a new review went up tonight. BTW, there is no question that she is not of age, and older than her posted age.