Ok I'm Whining!!!

Ok I'm whining but it really seems very hard for a newbie to get started in the Hobby. There has to be a balance between privacy and giving up too much information which could be detrimental to a client. What does a guy have to do ?

Find newbie-friendly providers, especially ones who can be reliable as references later on.

Find newbie-friendly providers, especially ones who can be reliable as references later on. Originally Posted by JdeHog

Pretty much!

I've actually responded to your PM with no response back

You need to see 2 newbie friendly girls and have them vouch for you. So show up on time, don't negotiate rate, be nice, clean up...and after that you should be able to see almost anyone on here.

But you have to make that investment or you'll still be asking the same question a year from now.

I recommend Selena and Danielle Reid... Not sure if Trinity or SerenityXXX is newbie friendly?

Thanks everyone for your words of encouragement, pm's , and advice!!!!!