First Thailand Trip

Howdy folks,

This site has served me very well for various happy moments in life. So, thanks to everyone contributing.
I am visiting Thailand for the first time this Nov-Dec and plan to travel the country around from north to central to south. I land at Bkk first and am still figuring out the daily travel plans. I will definitely take all the advise I can get on BKK, Pattaya and Phuket and will follow a lot of advises here from this group.

Could you all please advise on ways to find a travel companion for a few days and what pitfalls to avoid? Right now, I am thinking of finding someone for 2 days each in Phuket, Chiang Mai and Bkk regions. If the chemistry is good, I may opt to stick to the same person for 6 days or change every 2 days. I am there for about 10 days.
Thanks in advance.

Change every few days, but Thaifriendly has been a gold mine for me. Bumble and tinder also work, prearrange your deals with the girls, and watch out for scammers constantly asking for money. Be sure you get some time alone to explore massage parlors and freelance girls. The Suhkumvit area is best for full time action in Bkk, I like staying between soi 7 and Soi 13. That puts you within a 10 minute walk to Nana plaza or Soi Cowboy. If you’re not sure of sexuality ask, from what I understand most lady boys will tell you, if you’re still not sure ask for their id card which will have the birth sex. Patong Bangla rd and Otop is where I’ve found the most action,Pattaya you have Soi 6 walking street and tree house/ Soi Boakoh. Good luck sadly I’m winding down my last 48 hours here.

If you are going to Thailand for a wholesome vacation, make your plans around that.


If you're going for a sex-cation, then the only thing you need to plan is 1. your return flight 2. your hotel(s) and 3. your transport to/from the airport.
Otherwise, don't plan anything!


From reading other forums (pattaya-addicts is a real treasure trove), it seems like prices are up and.. I'm starting to sound like a jaded old monger even though I've only done two trips.





Though I'll recommend to you what I plan to do in the months leading up to my third trip (which is tentative some time in the future). Join TF premium, cast your net out to try to find a girl I'd like to LLT with.. Try to find a few, actually, to rotate them out every few days.

In addition to a large net, read some reviews (again, pattaya-addicts is golden for this), then focus on building a relationship with one of those.



Don't try to find the girl of your dreams once you are there. You'll be left blue balled and a wasted vacation.


And even if you get 50 girls saying they will be your vacation girlfriend and will dote all over you all the time, expect maybe 1 of them to actually come through. You are nearly 12 hours offset from them, and unless you're sending them donations prior to meeting, then they have no value in continuing to humor you while you're on the other side of the world for so long.


Just don't send them any significant amount of money first, or send it with the expectation that you aren't getting anything back from her.


As for when you got boots on the ground, I recommend Soi 6, or any of the gents clubs on Boomerang (420, 181, Muang Pattaya, Bang Lamung District, Chon Buri 20150, Thailand)

I was in Bangkok in July 2024. Bad time to be there; extremely hot and humid. But I had fun nonetheless. I had a wonderful two hours with Kat from Nai and Nong's Milking Table in Bangkok for about 3,000 Baht, which at the time was about $85. Most anything goes. A few minutes walk from my hotel (Ibis Bangkok Sukhumvit 4) is Analisa Massage. Amazing one hour tantra massage with an out-of-this world prostate massage for only 2,100 Baht (about $60). Went back for another hour the next day. So many opportunities for fun in Bangkok.

Are you trying to do Bangkok, Phuket, Pattaya and Chiang Mai in just 10 days???

That's the plan. Is that possible within 10 days? I like to travel by road to see the countryside than flying. So, need to figure out how to make that a possibility. Is it safe to ride a car/bike on your own or rent a car with a driver or take a taxi?

If you are coming from Texas (thats where your reviews are from), you are going to have an 11 hour timezone adjustment to get used to... Depending on you, this might take 2-3 days to fully adjust to, too.


And if you are wanting by road... Bangkok to Phuket is a 12 hour drive.... 500 miles.



So.... yea. If you're fine with spending at least half of your vacation in a car or suffering from jet lag, that's what is going to happen on a short 10 day trip. You'll have a bad time


If you only have 10 days, then IMHO for your first trip, just spend it in Pattaya. It's only 1.5-2 hours from BKK airport (much less if you have a late flight) and Pattaya is big enough to make spending a week there well worth it. Genuinely, if you want to hit more than one place, you'll need more than 10 days to really enjoy yourself.

Just got back from Thailand. 10 days is very short for holiday IMO. I would recommend at least 2 weeks. For mongering, Pattaya is the best. For everything else, I would go with Phuket, Chiang Mai, Samui. Bangkok is like a very major city and has all the positives and negatives. Girls are available wherever you go, but Bangkok has more options like multiple nuru/soapy places, kapoo clubs, multiple go go’s, Thermae room full of girls, etc.

I was in Bangkok in July 2024. Bad time to be there; extremely hot and humid. But I had fun nonetheless. I had a wonderful two hours with Kat from Nai and Nong's Milking Table in Bangkok for about 3,000 Baht, which at the time was about $85. Most anything goes. A few minutes walk from my hotel (Ibis Bangkok Sukhumvit 4) is Analisa Massage. Amazing one hour tantra massage with an out-of-this world prostate massage for only 2,100 Baht (about $60). Went back for another hour the next day. So many opportunities for fun in Bangkok. Originally Posted by frankbuck24

Summer in SEA is wild. A/C is not readily available everywhere like the US. I would never go during May - Aug. It depends when I can get work off but February is the best then it would be the rainy months for me. Rain is typically short and it’s very relaxing as you sit and relax.

I’ve done the milking table at Analisa with the highest package available which is 4,400 baht if I remember correctly. It wasn’t that great TBH since the 2 girls did not perform well together.